I'm 14 and wanna date.
No, i'm not in middle school. No, i'm not 4'9". I'm a sophomore in high school who's 5'6". Whoa...erm...
Here's the deal. I skipped a couple grades and I'm tall for my age. I've had to mature quickly (emotion-wise) when I was 10 and in seventh grade beside 13 yr olds. So, i've been with the same "class" since 7th grade. We get along. People are surprised at how young I am because i don't act like it. I really think I'm as mature as any 16 yr old. (my classmates are all 16)
Oh, and my friends and classmates are dating. It really seems fun! My friends aren't druggies and stuff- they're good students and they are responsible.
What's your opinion about me dating at 14?
2007-03-23 16:11:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it anyone who can face the adversity of skipping so many grades, is still doing well in school, and has a good head on thier shoulders should be able to date. However, be careful dating is not easy. It may look fun, but if you end up with the wrong guy it can really suck. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-23 16:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy Jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I'm 20 years older than you, sooo let me give you some advice.
Date, but simple nice things. Movies, Mall, Parks, etc.
Don't be in a hurry to grow up. Keep it light, fun and cute, and just be yourself.
Also- anyone you date now, is NOT who youre going to marry, sooo just have a nice time.
Also - don't go further than kissing!!!! Don't!!! WAIT!!! Wait until you find a guy when you are older that really deserves you and loves you, for anything else. Seriously.
Lots of luck.
2007-03-23 16:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by m s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sould not be looking for a boyfriend.. rather a young man who you want to relate to... eventually you will find that you will be happy.. because happyness is what people want in life..
but if u wanna date.. then go for it.. but ur 14..so wait a while.. and read paragraph no. 1 again..
cheers
2007-03-23 16:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Zed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an excelent time to practice to me!!! It takes a lot of effort to learn how to date, how to make guys like you and make them feel comfortable. I truly think people should start asap to talk to others.
On the other hand, single dating too early can not only lead to a lot of hurt feelings. Guys especially need time to learn how to get along with girls. It is very hard to not have contention with a bf/gf. It takes so much practice and effort.
Practice, but stay away from being exclusive and also putting your chastity in danger.
Some thoughts on making guys like you:
1. guys are scared to death, be gentle and kind and ask them about themselves. listen
2. act kind, but also act sassy - like every boy would die to go out with you.
You'll do great!!!
2007-03-23 16:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rich K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't your are too young to even be concerned about boys right now. Most of them just want to get into your pants at this age anyways. So wait, until your at least 16, you'll be glad you did.
2007-03-23 16:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you seem mature, especially compared to the rest of the adolescents on here. so if you feel emotionally strong enough to plunge into the dating world then go ahead. take it slow of course, just have fun for a while.
2007-03-23 16:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good. Just go to the movies with someone and enjoy yourself. When I was in sixth grade, i remember some of the people were dating then when they were just 11. >_>
2007-03-23 16:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Saru 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it!
You seem mature. I don't think age is really a matter when it comes to dating, but maturity level.
You can handle it.
Have fun.
2007-03-23 16:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by [192882] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be 14 and have fun being FRIENDS with your classmates. don't worry about dating. there is plenty of time for that. spend time with your girlfriends.
2007-03-23 16:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by erselius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't grow up so fast ...... if you start to date someone may take advantage of the situation because of the age....You are still young enjoy it while you can...
2007-03-23 16:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋