theres this guy and he was always flirting w/ me and now all his friengds are but i dont like his friends i like him. i wanna tell him but how do i without scaring him away. and him and his friends keep touching my boobs. so plzzzzz help me i feel like a hoe if i dont tell them to stop touching me !!!!!!
2007-03-23 15:52:59 · 25 answers · asked by volleygurlkbs93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is why my daughters are being taught self-respect. And knife fighting.
2007-03-23 15:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just say No, in a strict voice. If they follow through and be all like "come on" then tell them that they dont have the right to do that.
I think I know why you still want them near by, some girls like attention from males, no matter what kind of attention it is...And now that your telling them to stop giving you that attention, your scared that they will get the notion that you dont want them talking to you at all.
Well matters on what kind of guys your dealing with. By the sound of it they're not going to flirt with you any more, they just want to get in your pants. Dont think that you cant stand up for your self because of some dumb boys that are USING you.
If you say no and they dont talk to you any more, then you were being used.
If they agree and stop, but still talk to you then they are your friends. Easy as that. Besides if he likes you back he woulnt want to make you uncomfortable!!
2007-03-24 12:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi there,
If you don't like it, and you want them to stop just tell them to stop touch you nicely. If they keep on doing it. Then tell a parent or someone because that is rapist or something like that. So do that. Oh, and you are not a hoe. Your scared that's all. OH, and if you like the guy then just tell him right then and now.
2007-03-23 23:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK,
to make you sound tuft tell them to stop !#*%& tuching me (probley stop them for good) or to go to the office if you are in school and tell the vp and they will get suspended for 2 or 3 days because that is sexual harasment so im not saying what to do but another thing you could do is to go out with him and then tell him you would stop seeing him if he does not tell his freands to knok it off.
2007-03-23 23:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Boss302 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEy... listen girl you control the guy... so tell him that" you like him and only him.... if his friends touch you then you wont like him..........." I am !00% sure he will understand or else you will be called a slut and no guy wants to go out with you beacuse lots of guys touch you... if you like a guy that doesnt mean you should let him touch you just to make him like you.... Define who you are.... i am tellin you soon everyone will start touching you and pretty soon you will get used to it.... so set your limits let them know how far they can go with you.... like whats allowed and whats not...if you mak this clear at the begingin then you wont have problems like this anymore..... becareful some guys just to like you for ur body.... Find the right person..... :) GOODLUCK
2007-03-23 22:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When they go to touch your boobs, back off and say, no, Im not that kinda girl. And shake your head at them like your being serious, that there should help. It shows that your not being rude, you just want and are asking for respect, and who knows this one kid may like u even more if u stand up for yourself. heck he might even tell em to back off.
2007-03-23 23:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by grumpyme2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he's messin with you and flirting. . maybe that's a sign that he likes you back but u never know. . what kind of flirting is he doin? it's like friendly flirting or is he just messin with u cuz he likes checkin u out? only until u find out the truth, then u can tell him UR true feelings. hoped I helped!!
2007-03-23 22:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by imfotogenic4evr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First tell them don't touch you because you feel uncomfortable, if they don't stop it's time to take legal action.
Plus why waste your time on a guy who allows his friends to disrespect you.
2007-03-23 22:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by *Benny B* 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell your crush that you feel uncomfortable around his friends no matter how you feel. You have to put yourself first.
If he understands, and tells them to back off, Great!
If he blows it off and dismisses it, then forget about him, he a douche.
2007-03-23 22:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them 2 get their hands off of u..how old r u?? if they're your friends they should respect u when u say 2 stop!!
2007-03-23 22:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by sam! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's prolly jus them same as all of his friends. jus tell them to stop. if they dn't them slap them. if he likes u then he wouldn't be yelling at u 4 tellin them & he would tell them himself 2 stop. if he doesn't do so, then he doesn't like u, then there's no point in goin for him.
there are alot more guys our there.
2007-03-23 23:01:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋