Me and my boyfriend broke up 3 days ago and I miss him alot but he told me he will be back because he need time to himself to get himself together because i was always accusing him of things that he wasn't(he always prove me wrong) doing and he told me feelings i have never heard him say because of me accusing him all the time he was about to cheat on me and he didn't want to hurt me because i was to good and thats why he asked for us to split up for a while and he told he love me and will always love me but if we get back together now he will prob. do something that break us up and he want to become the person that he once was (sweet, didn't lie, or cheat, shy) i motivated him to become a bad perosn that he is and he dosen't feel himself he told me to think positive that he'll be back in a short time but the relationship thing is not working for him. What do you all think? Should I wait for him or move on to someone else?
2007-03-23 15:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you dug the grave so you might as well lay in it! Okay...wait...you seem like you are having a tough time coping. The number one thing a women can do to run her amn away is to accuse him! Its too late to take it back now. All you can do is be patient. If you let something go and it comes back then you know it was meant. He seems like a good guy who is tired of the problems not the situation. There is great chance of him coming back. Be his friend and love him from a far. Pray girl! It's not too late. I wouldn't move on just yet. I sense love. And I suggest that you deal with your own issues and insecurities before he takes you back!
2007-03-23 15:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's horrible!! Please don't tell me you're letting him blame you for how he's been acting?! It's nice and all that he's told you all this before he "supposedly starts" seeing someone else....or cheat or whatever. But I wouldn't take the blame for motivating him to be a bad person. He's just breaking things off for awhile so he can try out a new relationship with someone else. And if things don't go as planned he'll come back to you. Don't be a doormat and let him use you.
2007-03-23 22:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by gdesigner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he broke up with you because he was having urges to sow his wild oats. Either that or he was cheating on you and was afraid of getting caught. I'd move on, but give yourself a break before hopping into another relationship - you need time to get yourself figured out too. And with your next bf don't accuse him of doing horrible things unless you have proof. Being nagged is not fun.
Consider yourself lucky for getting out of this one before you got really burned. Good luck in the future!
2007-03-23 22:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by p_i_turtle_sanders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can not turn some one into a bad person. What he did or does is his own decision and you should not blame yourself. Move on .
2007-03-23 22:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend....he is stepping out and doesn't want to feel guilty by cheating on you. Let him go girl...cuz if he really wanted you he'd still be there!
2007-03-23 22:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by DaDiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋