i have never been kissed. sophomore in highschool. never ever had a boyfriend.
Maybe im afraid of being in a relationship?
and theres no one in my school to go out with; i like guys from different schools.
Will it come to me? It came to me once this year, a senior liked me an i liked him back, we went on my a date sorta thing(w/ my friend cuz i was too scared) but after awhile i just got annoyed by him so i avoided him. i know im horrible.
but will true love ever come to me?! someone who ive been looking for?! i dont want to be the only one left in my group to be single.. and i defiently dont want to graduate highschool without kissing anyone or having a boyfirned : (
what do i do with myself?! should i stop looking and wait for it to come again?
2007-03-23 15:46:14 · 11 answers · asked by brighterthansunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Im the same age and I havent kissed or gone out..well I sorta did last year but not really, I had a chance to and well it was semi long distance and I was too awkward, anyways I think it is important to say 'kissed' and not 'been' kissed as a kiss should be mutual. You know what? There are times when I question myself and say "I really need a girlfried, Im so lonely" and then I think, these are my years to be independent not tied down, and I dont feel I need a girlfriend to spend all my money on at this point in my life. I dont take the idea that it is wrong or strange to not have kissed someone by the end of high school though by then I think I will have I do not put deadlines on my natural developement as a person and a big part of that is knowing yourself which helps a lot in relationships not that I would know from experience with a girl just with friends and any relationship and break down the word relation-ship you have to relate with people and you cant do that if you dont know yourself and I am just naturally intuitive. All I can advise is explore who you are and let things unfold as they will not that this means you wont be taking action just a different kind which is living your life without deadlines based on social norms and remember EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT THERE IS NOONE JUST LIKE YOU! BEST OF LUCK!
2007-03-23 15:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Socrates 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I'm in the same situation: sophomore who's never been kissed! I think you should wait for it to come. If you're always preocupied with looking, you won't be able to just enjoy life. Besides, being single isn't that bad. Freedom! Plus, no drama.
2007-03-23 15:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mochi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny, why why why are you doing this to urself? so what if ur a sophomore and have never been kissed or had a boyfriend? why do you feel like ur going to be left out if u don't have a bf. honestly if i was you i would wait for someone who is gona be worth it. you shouldn't have to go and look for someone to date or kiss or call ur bf. just wait, and it will happen... and when it does u'll know and u'll be happy. don't try so hard. ur so young just enjoy yourself stop trying so hard to be like everyone or to fit in. just be you...do things your way...wait if you have to or want to...graduate high school being single if you don't find someone whose worth it... just take it easy girl....someone will come along...
2007-03-23 15:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur puttin to much pressure on urself to get a bf...seriously just relax...u dont hafta go lookin eventually 1 will come...but ur in high school...u should spend more time with ur friends enjoyin their company while ya can more than lookin fer a bf that u are most likely not gonna talk to again after u break up...PS im a junior n i didnt kiss a girl til late my sophomore year...so dont worry
2007-03-23 15:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by RJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie it extremely is the final element you will possibly desire to concern approximately, end severe college and flow to college and get a good activity, have faith me its a thank you to flow. there is a lot of time to kiss and get laid later on in life..u do no longer % teenagers whilst your nonetheless in highschool and have faith me purely kissing can bring about teenagers, in basic terms takes one time. additionally maximum youthful adult adult males would be shy and wont flow as much as exceedingly females, thats purely how that's. you will might desire to coach interest interior the guy you like in case you % him to take lead. good success =P
2016-10-20 08:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens. I'm a sophmore myself and I just found my first boyfriend. (We've been together 5 months and haven't kissed because he's to shy, teehee) these things just take time and when you do find someone, it will be all the more special.
2007-03-23 15:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by thisidismineandonlymine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it because the right guy will find you trust me and that first kiss will be one that you will never forget. So let it be with someone that you truly care about!!!
2007-03-23 15:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by chauntee d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love always seems to come after we've stopped looking for it! Trust me.
2007-03-23 15:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say stop pushing it away and call that boy right now and tell him you are sorry your avoided him and explain you felt like you werent ready to skip ahead to dating instead of knowing.
that is if you like him...
"put yourself out there and itll find you
putting yourself out there and finding him then youve found the one"
-me
good luck♥
2007-03-23 15:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am like you. freshman, no bf ever and no kiss, but it will come in time. be patient, im waiting and it will be worth the wait in a long run.
2007-03-23 15:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋