the only real reason we broke up was becuase my mom pretty much told him to his face that he wasn't good enough for me. but my mom is like that. she even tells me that sometimes. then i thought i was going to be moving to another state. so the next day at school he could tell i was having a hard day and came up behind me and started rubbing my shoulders. i told him not to touch me. i thought moving would be easier if he was mad at me. but now i'm not moving. but my mom still doesn't allow me to have any contact with him. she's even gone to the vice principle and couselours at my school about this "problem". i've found notes in my notebooks saying "i still care about you a lot. please call me becuase i'm confused." but of course i can't call him either. what do i do? i still honestly care for him a lot, so much i can't explain it. we're both 17. i don't want to go against my mom, what am i supposed to do? i've already talked to my mom about it, no good. please help me
2007-03-23 15:44:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest it sound's like your mom is too over protectiv, and it look's like she's the one that's going to pick your BF not you, Your both 17 and it's what you think about him not what your mother think's. Have a talk with her, and tell her it's about you not her, it's about what you want and who you want, ^^. You have to tell her to take a step back and keep out of your releationship's, She can hate, dislike, all she want's. Just remember that if she keep's this up, you might actualy lose that one guy because of it.
2007-03-23 15:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
somebody can nevertheless love and care approximately you devoid of wanting to spend their lives with you in an enduring relationship. maximum in all possibility he's attempting his ultimate to not harm your emotions. there is likewise the stable risk that he's involved in somebody else, hence his emphasis on there being no desire or destiny for the two certainly one of you. Be grateful that he has been trustworthy with you. quite than obsess over the misplaced relationship, spend greater time alongside with your different acquaintances and do issues you take excitement in.
2016-12-19 12:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow all i can really tell u is maybe ur mom thinks he is a bad guy and she doesnt want u to end up getting hurt or something because other wise why would she go through that much trouble?
2007-03-23 15:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just secretly go out with him..... that is wut i am doin and i am pretty much in the same situation....except im younger than u.... but seeing as u dont want 2 go behind your mothers back u should either protest against your mom or find someone else.... there really isnt much else you can do....
2007-03-23 15:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by pinkpup101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something crazy like eloping
or
just leave him and move on
there's as much men out there as the fishes in the sea
2007-03-23 15:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kensuke 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get back together! so what what your mom thinks its your life and u should be abel to do what you want
2007-03-23 15:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Becky M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋