i got this girl from playing this game...we spent long hours together,and i know her for a bit now...she had a boyfriend before....but she broke up with him bcuz she said she liked me more...the only thing is, i don't have the feeling of being her BF...and I have someone who likes me,and i like her too...wat should i do to the girl that broke up with her BF for me and to the girl that i like and likes me too?
please tell me what to do...
2007-03-23 15:43:29 · 6 answers · asked by pkmtBasil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she wants to be more than just a friend and it's giving me a hard time cuz she wont understand wat i mean.....
2007-03-23 15:55:17 · update #1
ill try wat works best...thx people il give best answer soon..thanks again!
2007-03-23 15:57:53 · update #2
I would say in this that you should be upfront with the girl who likes you but you don't like her back... you can tell her you value her friendship and going out would only ruin that(as I am sure you feel that way, you at least cared enough to ask about it)...Just be honest and nice about it. but that is only if she is asking you to date her. If not then you have no reason to feel like you have to do anything.
It is not your fault that she decided to break it off with her boyfriend and you should not feel obligated to date her in any way... it was her choice.
It is better to date someone you like then date someone because you are afriad to hurt their feelings... it would end anyway and would be worse then not dating her to begin with!
As for this other girl you like.. date her. There is no rule saying you can't just because someone else likes you.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 15:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to tell people that--but once it's done, it's a weight off of you. Be honest, just tell her you like her as a person, but that you don't think you have the same feelings for her that she does for you. Tell her things happen for a reason and that maybe meeting you made her see that the BF wasn't right for her, just like you now see that she isn't right for you and that the other girl is. She'll be hurt, maybe even mad, but in the long run, you're gonna do it anyway, so the sooner the better. You'll feel better. The alternative is to be with her forever, marry her, have kids, and be a miserable soul and make her unhappy, too. Hey, tell her THAT!
2007-03-23 22:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Helen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with your feelings. Shes going to be hurt either way so just be kind to her and say that you just don't feel the same way as she does, tell her you already interested in someone and you never thought she would break up with her bf. for you. And that you never want that.
2007-03-23 22:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make this any longer, tell her now! but do it gently. take her for a walk or treat her for lunch and tell her, you're really a good friend, and that's all i can picture us, I like you as a friend, but that's just it, I cant go any further. If I'll compromise, I might hurt you because i like someone else. If its ok, I really want us to be friends. try that! and see how it works,
2007-03-23 22:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that it would be better if yall would be friends
2007-03-23 22:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥RachelRocks123♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her!!! and that's all!!
No problem!!!
2007-03-23 22:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋