my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 yrs. and since then, I was the one who's always asking him out! its because he hasn't got any money he says, but i want to spent time with him so I used up all my savings for us to be able to go out., but now I'm broke! really broke and getting bankrupt all of a sudden, he sometimes pay for movies and lunch, but I do all the majority, I know he has money and I know he's not poor, He can buy anything he wants. But how come he's telling me, that he hasn't got anything when in fact, He lives a leisurely life. What's wrong with him??
2007-03-23
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Girl you better wake up and smell the BS before he has taken all of your money and found some other nice girl to use.
I'm not saying that your bf doesn't care about you, but once you show a person some sort of weakness they attack it. You haven't given him any reason to depend on his own finances. you have been to wide open with your money and as a result he has taken advantadge. It's not his fault. It's yours! If you want to keep him (you shouldn't, but if you do) then you need to put your foot down! DOWN!!! don't tap your foot, stomp it. If you dont want him then let him go now before it gets too bad. Love you first girl and that way a man can never make you go bankrupt!
2007-03-23 15:46:48
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answered by Anonymous
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It sounds like it's a little late to be telling you this, but please can you stop being a donkey! This boyfriend is and never was well intentioned. I also think your self esteem was and maybe still is a little low, if you had to be the one asking him out then something is terribly wrong. Don't you believe in chivalry? How far are you willing to go to be with this person, oh dumb question, bankruptcy!! Come on girl, it maybe a little late but you don't need to be with this "jiggalow". Once your money runs out so will he, he won't be in your life for much longer, because you have no more money to spend, this is sad but I hope you learned from this experience and realize that you cannot buy love and you were used to the highest degree. I suggest you be the dumper instead of the dumpee, because he will kick you to the curb and you will feel alot worse if he does it, so do him before he do you! At least you'd get a little satisfaction from this whole donkey experience that you put yourself in for the past 2 years. Please don't do that again! it's a hard lesson but one I really do hope you learned!
Good luck
2007-03-23 22:51:52
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answered by spoiltrini 4
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You already know the answer.
He's a USER. Stop being a sap and dump that ******. And I don't want to hear that "But I LOVE him" crap. If/when you two go out again make that sorry SOB cough up some cash for his half of the bill. Everyone is selfish to a degree, but this loser takes the cake! You need to start think about 'you' for a change. I just gave you good solid FREE advice, now go use it.
2007-03-23 22:51:03
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answered by Larry F 4
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he is a mooch that is what is wrong with him. Don't ask him out anymore it is ruining you financially. He is not poor and has money because you pay for everything. What is wrong with you for allowing this to go on. At the very least make him pay his own way. If you go out to eat tell him that he needs to pay for his own meal. Don't call for a while and you will find out if he cares for you, he will call or if he is using you for your money, he won't call. Have you told him that you are going bankrupt to date him?
2007-03-23 22:50:44
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answered by bubbles 5
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whats wrong with ur dumbass thinkin he can just walk all over u like that...if he knows that ull pay y would he...he doesnt kno if ur relationship is gonna last ferever n if it doesnt hes the smart 1 cuz then he didnt blow his life savings on it...sorry fer bein so harsh but its the truth
2007-03-23 22:45:00
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answered by RJ 4
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he's a user. i mean looser. you don't have to be old fashion to see what is wrong here. i used to know a girl going out with a guy just like that. whenever she was talking about going somewhere he always said."Well if you want to go I'll go with you but it's on you dear" i always just rolled my eyes thinking what a LOOSER.
2007-03-23 22:49:09
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answered by doug h 5
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what`s wrong with you. .... you should never have let it go this far. He has loved you paying for everything he probably feels he deserves it because he is such a nice person. well hog wash .. he is cheap cheap cheap
2007-03-23 22:53:33
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answered by pheebe 3
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I don know ... ofcourse he is usin u , how da hell that u still with him am sorry about my honesty but the real bf never do that
good luck and sorry
2007-03-23 22:46:21
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answered by lololo 1
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He is greedy and selfish. I think he used you and now that you don't have anything, he does not need you. You should do your own thing get on your feet and better yourself. Forget him.
2007-03-23 22:47:27
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answered by Niddy G 2
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BECAUSE YOU PAID FOR THINGS THE FIRST TIME NOW HE THINKS HE CAN HAVE YOU PAY FOR EVERYTHING. LET HIM KNOW YOUR NOT PAYING FOR ANYTHING ANYMORE.
2007-03-23 22:44:48
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answered by EMT 3
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