I asked my boyfriend to not be friends with one of his girl friends? It's not that I'm jealous of her, but the way she acts is just horrible. Every other word out of her mouth is unspeakable and she really isn't the type of person I like for my boyfriend to be hanging around. She has lied about him and about me to his mom (who didn't believe a word of it), but still this doesn't phase him. Should I say something to him? Or do you think he will realize what a bad seed she is when she does something worse than lie to or about him?
2007-03-23 15:39:44 · 11 answers · asked by collegeboundblonde1287 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you would not be a bad girlfriend for voicing your concerns to him. and certainly if he cares about your feelings he will try to do something about it. it may not be what you want but as long as the effort was a good one then i think you should leave it alone because if she's like you say then he wont be able to satand being around her for much longer.
2007-03-23 15:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about instead of just asking him not to be friends with her, ask him why he is friends with her. Maybe he will then think about everything that has happened and realize she isn't worth his time.
2007-03-23 22:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if I was him and you told me flat out that she was bad and that I shouldn't hang around her, I and most other guys would get on the defensive and tell you to stop messin with my life. So you could discreetly put stuff she's done in his face so that he couldn't miss it
2007-03-23 22:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
live with it. that may cause a fight and you dont want that and a bad seed is always noticeable when it sprouts so give it time and he will see what is above the ground.
2007-03-23 22:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control another person. You cannot tell him who he can and cannot be friends with, if he is an intelligent guy he will figure it out. If you force him he will resent you not her.
2007-03-23 22:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jenifer B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being his gf means you look out for each other and if you think she is bad tell him how you feel and don't wait till she does worse or you might regret it.
2007-03-23 22:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt choose his friends.
Give him a chance to see her for what she really is, and if he still remains friends with her, then he obviously doesnt mind and you shouldnt say anything anyway
=)
2007-03-23 22:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is an immature little spoiled brat looking for attention. You should verbalize your thoughts to your b-friend. why wait for him to "realize" anything? that may take forever, after all you know how boys are. speak now or forever hold your tongue, woman.
2007-03-23 22:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well talk to him about her first instead of blowing ur steam about her to ur bf spontaneously, see what he thinks first before assuming anything then see if he would agree to you. about her lying, just hope karma would kick her *** one day
2007-03-23 22:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by shanakon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....You would..that is beyond uncalled for!! Grow up!
2007-03-23 22:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋