SHE HAD A GREAT GUY WHO SHE WAS ENGAGED 2. HE WAS EVERYTHING SHE WANTED, HE TREATED HER RIGHT & MADE HER HAPPY.SHE WAS VERY INSECURE & CONSTANTLY QUESTIONED HIS LOVE & HAD FIGHTS IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS.HE HAS JUST BROKEN OFF THE ENGAGMENT SAYIN HE NEEDS 2 FIND HIMSELF, HE 'LOVES' HER BUT IS NOT 'IN LOVE' WITH HER ANYMORE & SHE NEEDS 2 GET HELP (SHE IS)
SHE IS REALLY CONFUSED AS HE SAID 2 KEEP THE RING BUT KEEP IT IN THE BOX 2 LOOK AT IN HOPE 4 THE FUTURE.HE TOLD HER HE WILL CALL HER JUST AS FRIENDS AS HE STILL WANTS HER IN HIS LIFE. SHE ASKED IF HE TRULY BELIEVED IF THEY WOULD GET BACK 2GETHER-HE SAID THERES ALWAYS HOPE.SINCE THEN SHE HAS RUNG HIS SISTER & HE GOT UPSET ABOUT IT. MY FRIEND GOT THE COURAGE UP2 SAY I WILL ONLY BE FRIENDS IF SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN BETWEEN US AGAIN IF NOT I CANT B FRIENDS & HIS REPLY WAS 'CAN U JUST B FRIENDS?' HE SAID HE WILL ONLY CALL HER AS A FRIEND BUT NOW HE WONT GIVE HER A TIME HE WILL BE CALLING!HES NOT THE GUY SHE FELL IN LOVE WITH. IS IT OVER?
2007-03-23 15:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by jenperera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think unfortunately it's over. Guys use this excuse a lot "being friends" but it's just to ease the blow. He obviously really cares about her and doesn't want to hurt her, so he's trying to make it easier on her but he is probably moving on and she needs to as well.
2007-03-23 15:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say so. Picking a fight is never cool, doing so in front of friends is pretty bad.
I'd tell your friend she needs to get over her insecurities, because I'll bet that's what drove him away from her. If there's a reason she's insecure, she needs to come to terms with that before trying to get involved with another relationship.
2007-03-24 00:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be get over insecurities or she will be miserable the rest of her life. Maybe counseling would help her. She needs to worry about herself and get over the guy.
2007-03-24 07:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is over. He needs to move on with his life. She is the one that mass up not him. I think she still want he back. Not as a friend more then that.
2007-03-23 23:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by loretta b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Dear, it's done. Even if they go back and try again, the damage is done.
She needs to eat ice cream and potatoe
chips and cry to anyone who will listen-then
pick herself up and go on.
2007-03-27 20:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by CANDY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like it is over....
2007-03-23 22:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋