Over the last 3 months, I have become extremely "close" with with a married women. We get along. Her feelings for me are mutual. We both have apprehensions about taking it past friendship. Can someone out there give some advice.
2007-03-23 15:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by DoubleD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if shes married, back off some. try to move on
2007-03-23 15:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure , here is some advice .
advice 1. Get away from her , dont see her again , if you see her walking towards you cross the street and go the other way. She is married and not to you. Taking it past friendship would be adultery for her, defile her wedding vows before God and is just yucky.
advice 2. Go for it , hire a hotel room for a week and go for it .
If you still feel the same way afterward you both go tell her husband that she is divorcing him and staying with you.
She will do to you what she did to her husband eventually.
You know what you should do. It might not be easy but there are really only two decent choices. Pick one .
2007-03-23 15:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's married! Think about it! What kind of a woman is she to be having feelings for you if she's married to someone else?! Don't you think that maybe she could possibly do the same thing to you? I know not all marriages are perfect but you have to respect the fact that she IS married and wait until that marriage is over before you do anything!
2007-03-23 15:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop! No offense but don't try to get any closer than you are... just stay good friends... No point in ruining possibly (possibly not always) 3 lives... It may turn out that you 2 aren't meant for each other... and where will you be then? Huh? Back off a bit and stop thinking about loving her! That's not fair to her husband
2007-03-23 15:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Andreios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE dont make it anything more than a friendship.
ive had a lot of heartbreak over things like that, but my issues involve my dad, and his women...and my mom of course.
please figure out a way to keep your relationship with her as is, a friendship and nothing more. if u do it will ruin her marriage.
She needs to be honest with herself and decide between u or her husband. im curious if, she has children.....
if she does...leave it alone
2007-03-23 15:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on man you gotta draw the line somewhere. and this is where you draw the line. look around you find someone else. If she gets a divorce(not because of you) then you can step forward, otherwise, noooo
2007-03-23 15:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by l E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get her to divorce her husband if BOTH of you are really in love. Otherwise, I would say you forget about her.
2007-03-23 16:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by sixpacabs139 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT BE A THIRD PARTY. go move on.. before it develops even more.
she is married.. its a done deal.
if she had a boyfriend than it is fine but marriage.. uh.. yeah.
so just go look for a special girl who is single : )
2007-03-23 15:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by brighterthansunshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should put urself in her husband's shoes, how would u feel if u found out that ur wife is so close to someone else?Think about it dude.
2007-03-23 18:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by iloveMnMchocs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman needs to either divorce her husband or stop being a shitty wife.
2007-03-23 15:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋