There's this one guy who I really like who goes to my school. We're pretty good friends, but somehow during the year I started thinking different about him. I always notice him looking at me from across the hallway and trying to be next to me. I ask my friends about it and they assume he likes me. The thing is I'm too shy too ask him and he's too shy to ask me out. All my friends have been bugging me to ask but I have no clue what to say or where to say it and I also fear rejection.... This other time with a different guy I had one of my friends ask him out for me but it didn't work so I don't want to have a friend do it, I want to try for once but I have no clue what to say and where to say it because I don't really see him after school that often... please help =[
2007-03-23 15:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by Viki O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, Like most definatly ask him out, everybody fears rejection, and it does suck... But Nonetheless, take matters into your own hands, Just tell him you like him and would like to go out with him in this kinda format... Hey ___ I really like you, and I was wondering if you would go out with me? < Just ask him be upfront!! Best wishes!
2007-03-23 15:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by rawr125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Since you both are shy, this is a problem. You will have to gather your courage and walk up to him. You can ask the time. Or you can ask what he's doing this weekend. Ask whatever you want but it is best if it isn't just a one word answer. If you ask what he's doing this weekend and he answers. Smile and tell him what you are doing. Then smile and say something like "See you back at school on Monday." Do this several times the following week and then wait. I bet he will come to you to talk in a few days then. It's a good plan for being shy.
2007-03-23 22:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm. While you ask him just stay calm. Try not to think bad things like rejections. Then ask calmy. It might take a day for the answer, I know you would hate waiting just wait. If he says no, well keep trying, I mean HE is not the ONLY guy in YOUR life.
2007-03-23 22:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off. some guys don't like it when you get your friends to ask someone out for them, trust me i found out the hard way. and you have nothing to worrierr about, from what i heard.. it seems to me that the boy likes you. so just walk up to him with confidants when you catch him in the hall alone, and ask him there. and don't worrie if he says no or yes, just remember that there are other guys and the sea. and you won't die because of it.
2007-03-23 22:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by RockergurlSoS! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in one of ur classes just sit next to him and say what u need 2 say and if u get rejected just briing up about him staring like why are u alawys staring at me
2007-03-23 22:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by sweettea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should start by hanging out outside of school. Trust me if you are friends it is alot easier!
2007-03-23 22:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by S W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a place that's more private and talk to him. You can ask like "who do you like?" or something to start out.
2007-03-23 22:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rafael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a note give it to one of his friends you trust and give it to him and to be less shy try talking to him A LOT MORE then he will get less shy also but for now talk more write note
2007-03-23 22:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by republican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes makin eyes at you let him know you like it, maybe flirt a little more with him give him some signs and he might ask you out
2007-03-23 22:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and say " Do you want to go out with me sometime?" if he says no then just move on and go with a guy you truley know that will say yes. if he says yes then you are good.
2007-03-23 22:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by loudbark411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋