Are guys responsible for not asking a girl who is in search of mr.right, I mean the responsibility is tough on us. We have to go head and make a move. We have to decide if she is the right one, and there is also rejection. So as a guy I would love to have a good mate, but because of the reasons I mentioned above I often back off. what is your opinion?
2007-03-23 15:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and make the move! You wouldn't want to pass up a chance of finding 'just the right one', would you? Some girls are really shy, but you can usually tell if they're interested just by making eye contact. You sound like the perfect gentleman; I hope you find your 'perfect' mate! Good luck 'n God bless.
2007-03-23 15:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In search of the Christian mate can be more difficult than your "average" dating.....in regard to the fact that there are many things to take into consideration.
The easiest way to check out your prospects is get involved in a church or church ministry that allows opportunity for other singles to gather - be a part of that group or outing - this will give you opportunity to make new Christian friends, solidify old friendships and perhaps give you a chance to talk and spend time with some ladies whose qualities are becoming to you - not just the physical but their spiritual attitude, viewpoint and stand.
Once you have established in your heart and mind the person of interest ..... continue to extend opportunities to speak and share your faith.
Bonds can form from this ...... be a friend first and then as He leads - proceed.
Best wishes in your search for additional happiness!!
2007-03-23 15:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me...i would stay single until i see someone that i know i would trust and is a very likable person. i mean me as a 17 year old christian Latina, I've made some pretty dumb choices but then i just asked my mom what was best for my life and she told me to take my time and even if i start dating again when im 25, if that's as long as it takes to find a decent christian man, then that's just how long I'll have to wait. you just have to be wise and make the right choice. and if you don't make the right choices, then you have to serve the consequences...no matter how hard they may be.
2007-03-23 15:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by AlYSSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do NOT fall in love from afar, fear of rejection FEEDS off of this.Talk to her as if you just want to be freinds first and get to know her.You may think she is all that and a bag of chips a candy bar and a drink with change to spare, just to find out later she aint.Next, you can choose to live in fear,or you can keep a safe distance emotionally from her until something evolves.Use your head not your heart, your heart will get you into trouble.
2007-03-23 15:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys and girls are both responsible for picking the mr. or mrs. right and faith should not be able to get in the way of that. i am a christian too and finding guys is hard for me especially the good kind so i just take the pressure of them sometimes and take things into my hands. alls i can say is that responsisbility is not ALL on you. pick who like and everything will fit into place and be yourself.
2007-03-23 15:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it. It always works. Especially if your looking for a christian gal. Looks can be deceiving...just remember that. Only God knows the heart of a person. We could always get it wronge but not God. Put your faith in Him.
2007-03-23 15:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Alie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer date. instead, court docket. relationship is spending time with somebody for a season for the reason which you savor their business company. relationship is like an interviewing technique - you're "hiring" a spouse, and if throughout any point of interviews, an applicant proves themselves to no longer be as much as the activity, they are not invited to the subsequent interview. There are 2 steps for a guy to take to locate a spouse. the 1st is the no longer hassle-free one, and probable the extra substantial one. that's this: Make of your self the guy God meant. to do this, concentration on Jesus and run as no longer hassle-free as you may for Him. 2 substantial issues will take place for you in case you try this precise - you would be a mature Christian who will in basic terms settle for God's ideal, and the stunning form of girls won't have the flexibility to stay far off from you. as quickly as you have somewhat achieved the 1st step, the 2nd isn't too no longer hassle-free. look on your left, and look on your precise. Of the ladies keeping up including your %. for Jesus you will possibly be able to % to court docket. keep in mind, you're in seek of for Mrs precise. as quickly as any female shows herself to no longer be Mrs precise, do no longer string her alongside - do no longer ruin a woman's heart with the help of relationship her when you comprehend it won't be able to lead to marriage. you would be the two yoked. the two finding for an identical #one million, unchanging purpose in life.
2016-10-20 07:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a proposal is like a game, either u lose or win just go ahead and propose to the person is,will, will be going to be the right person for u ,b'co GOD will not come down from heaven to choose for u
2007-03-23 15:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by ikemenz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about taking chances. You won't know unless you make an attempt to find out if someone likes you too.
2007-03-23 15:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you are a christian then don't fret over what, who, when and how. God will provide if you'll wait for Him. My wife came in the most unexpected way and I thank God for her!
2007-03-23 15:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋