my ex bf and I have been broken up for at least 10 months now however we have actually been flirting alot together and last week we went to lunch twice then he invited me to the pub after work which i accepted....we ended up going back to his place just chatting and flirting which lead to a kiss...he knows im not the type of girl to just sleep with anyone and im sure he knows how i feel...we were sitting on the sofa with our heads together then he kissed me...i returned it of course then said to him no why did u do that he said do i blame him?? i know how he felt about me....for the past few months he has been thinking that he likes me and getting back together...but he doesnt know coz he is abit confused...it was a really good night since then we have been out kinda but nothing else has happened and we havent mentioned the kiss but why not?? i want him to mention it especially if he wants to ger back together i know hes abit shy but he shoudnt be i kissed him back..
2007-03-23 15:20:20 · 17 answers · asked by hunybuny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should i do!!? we have planned to go out again next week but this was planned after valentines day...which took me by surprise bcoz he had copied a cd for me on valentines day then asked me to go see the band a few days later....we have also planned to go somewhere this june!! I just dont wanna make it seem obvious to him that I want him back...I want him to make the first move which is what he did do but we aint spoken about it...should i mention it or suggest something!!? how do i know if he really does wanna be with me??
2007-03-23 15:24:14 · update #1
the last two days he hasnt really spoken to me though....if i was to text him what should i say??
2007-03-23 16:24:38 · update #2
he wants you to bake him a pie
2007-03-23 15:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by mlkirchgessner 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You two are still together, come on now! Why would he be asking you out if he didn't still have feelings for you and why would you be accepting if you didn't still have feelings for each other. Just grow up, ask him if he wants you back and if he says yes, say so do I because you know you want him!! Don't act like 5th graders, hopefully you are adults please act like it. Tell the man how you feel, or stop accepting his invites if you don't want him back. An ex is an ex for a reason and if you two are still hanging out and exchanging kisses and flirting with each other then it is clear that you two are not over each other, be adult about it and stop acting like children already!
2007-03-23 22:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said he is a bit shy and after you having broken up he is not sure of how he stands with you. If you want to talk about the kiss then you should bring it up and let him know how you felt about it. Don't be stupid, there is nothing wrong with a girl starting a conversation.
2007-03-23 22:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly seems the best policy or you will be going around in circus look like this guy keeping you hanging on until a better offer comes along
Do you really what to get back together or is the saying better the devil you know ...have you got on with your life since you left him go out meet new friends start a new hobby wash that man out of your head if you are really interested ...be cool matter of fact....
let him do all the running it seems that you be running to him....
let him see what it like to not have you around stop being the one in front
2007-03-24 05:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your bf knows what he wants, so he's stringing you along until he figures it out.
it sucks, you have to be strong and resist the urge to flirt with him or hang out with him, so that he can see that he can't break up with you and then treat you however he wants.
catering to his needs is not going to make him want you more - in fact, it will make you more frustrated because he'll lose respect for you because he'll know that he can treat you however he wants.
you have to take control of the situation!
hope that helps...
2007-03-23 22:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by elle1223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss might be a kiss but it might be the begining of a new fresh relationship....talk to him and bring it up br specific dont leave anything out and if he cant handle it, its time for you to move on.
good luck
2007-03-23 22:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want to be back together then why aren't you? Why don't you just bring it up? Sounds like you know he wants it and you do too, so bring it up already!
2007-03-23 22:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by S W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have made yourself available and you give him no commitments or boundaries so I guess he has the best of two worlds. a booty call who wont become anything else or that he can string along for who knows how long
2007-03-23 22:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he shy or does he want his cake and to eat it too? Has he been seeing anyone else? If not, ask him what he wants. Life is too short to play games, but if you must...make him jealous and see if that will untie his tongue and get him to make a move
2007-03-23 22:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by MKD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll bet he wants to be with you again but with the shyness he wants you to take charge and make the move.
2007-03-23 22:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jon S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confused my ***,he only wanted a shag cause he's not had 1 for 10 month.
2007-03-24 00:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋