WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE LIKING ME? SHE REALLY LIKES ME BUT HER FEELINGS ARE ALL SCREWED. AND SO ARE MINE! HELP!! PLEASE AND THANK YOU
2007-03-23 15:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by Trigo L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful with this one. Move slowly, be there for her, but do not try to move too fast, because you could unintentionally take advantage of her vulnerable feelings and state of mind. She likes you and that is a good thing, but she may be too scared to get too close to you. Give her some time, and just be yourself. Do not fall into the trap of trying to be like her old BF, because this will only cause problems for you.
2007-03-23 15:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be compassionate in the fact of her loss and show her you care about her feelings in this matter and that you really like her but remind her that that was them and this is you guys - you cannot have a relationship if is going to compare with "them" or cannot let go of "him".
Be a friend and let her express her feelings but do not let it consume your time together.....it takes time to get over some one regardless of what the departure type was.....
be a friend and if meant to be something more - will.
2007-03-23 22:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will need a good friend for sure. I would take things slowly and be a strong support for her. She may feel guilty about being interested in someone else, so take your time and let her get back to normal. Be sensitive to her feelings. Good luck.
2007-03-23 22:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nanneke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date someone out of pity. If she's dating you off the rebound (which I'm very sorry to hear her ex died) then you should watch out. And death is a hard thing to get over.
2007-03-23 22:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you want to help her out and since your her BF you want to know how everything is going in and give her afew days she may just be stressed about her BF dying
2007-03-23 22:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start slow and fairly casual. Get to know each other better and see what develops.
2007-03-23 22:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought u and her were in tha relationship not her and her dead boyfriend. she may shed a few tears but after that ya'll need 2 get 2gether.
2007-03-23 22:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by PHATChik1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say. really just let her know that you care for her and that her past is something important and that you want to be there for her. tell her how you feel.
2007-03-23 22:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "i dont wanna pressure you into anything, and i want you to be comfortable with this, and do it when your ready"
2007-03-23 22:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes all someone needs is compassion.
2007-03-23 22:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by Rafael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋