I am 19 and my boyfriend and I have been thinking about having sex, but I want to know if it hurts first.
2007-03-23 15:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your 19? ever heard the term "poppin the cherry" ??
2007-03-23 15:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by zxcvzxcv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the woman, if the hymen is very thick it can be painful. I also know of women who said it hurt a little but not much, as for me I felt considerable pain, and bled for all of the next day. I tolerate pain well, I had 2 c-sections and didn't use any pain medicine after wards.
2007-03-23 22:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, your muscles may not be used to the intrusion upon penetration so it may hurt just a little bit while your muscles relax. My advice to you is to take a deep breath, relax and enjoy!
2007-03-23 22:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the boyfriend go buy some lube like KY that will help. and because you are nervous the first time it might be painful
2007-03-23 22:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it pain as much as it was discomfort. It may depend on how nervous you are. I hope you all make it special because you will never forget it.
2007-03-23 22:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be a little uncomfortable, but if you use proper lubrication and take it slow, you should be fine. i wouldn't call it PAINFUL. he needs to be aware that you are a virgin so that he doesn't take it too fast and make you think negatively about sex in the future.
BUT USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 22:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by simple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It doesn't hurt for guys, but most girls find it rather painful.
I found it painful.
2007-03-23 22:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by ruthlee31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-23 22:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by The Don 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋