well you see i have been dateing this guy for about eight mounthes now. well see he tells me that he loves me and i say it back to but iam just not sure if i do . ithick i do
2007-03-23 14:53:56 · 20 answers · asked by Angel gril 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey gal! litsen 2 ur heart n follow it....there is no other person in the world who can answer ur question except ur heart... im juz a normal girl answering ur question but in the end ur heart tells u wat u feel n wat u think...:)
2007-03-23 14:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by preetty please 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've already answered the question.... if there's any doubt, it's very possible you're not in love yet.
However, it's really something only you can figure out. People fall in love for different reasons, at different times. I do not think it's like they make it look in the movies, love is something that grows within two people. It isn't necessarily instant.
You've been with this guy for a good while, just sit down and evaluate your relationship. If you aren't in love yet, it's okay. You may not feel that strongly about him yet, or you may realize he's just not the one for you. take things slowly. You will know when you are.
2007-03-24 14:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie only u kno when ur in love... no one else could explain it for you... If u get a strong urge that tells u that u may be only sayin it jus because he said it then u might not be in love... u could be lookin at him as a good friend that u can open up 2! But hey who kno's???
2007-03-23 21:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u answered ur own ? if in doubt ur not so fall out . if u can go on a2weeks vacation without him controlling uand u not wanting 2report 2 him u r not go away frm him 4 awhile and see if u can live without him
2007-03-23 22:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by kyfixedit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no definate way to know but if you think alot about em but thats not a real answer you'll know when the time comes though because he'll do something that makes you realize in a snap
2007-03-23 21:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its love. You can stay with him and it might work out and you may eventually fall in love with him. I could be wrong, but maybe you'll meet a man that really blows your whistle! Good luck.
2007-03-23 21:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean because he might end up more hurt than just telling him you're unsure of how deep your feelings go. Trust me, you would know if you're in love. I am guessing you aren't.
2007-03-23 21:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stand to be without him, then you are in love. If you just feel a friendly affection toward him, then you probably are not.
2007-03-23 21:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Catherine B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you try making a little chart of things you like and things you dislike about him. If theres more likes, then you love him, if not then you don't.
2007-03-23 21:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by a person 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just know....you wouldn't want to be without this person and you think about them all the time. Your future plans include them...
2007-03-23 21:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not ready dont say it if you r say it. when ever ur ready to be in love. u just dont think u know so.. do you know what i mean... if you don't IM me a streetfootball1334@yahoo.com
2007-03-23 21:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by we'll win the state game 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋