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My sister is 15 and is dating 17 year old guy. The thing is this guy is not right for her. This guy is always getting into trouble and is doing drugs(skater guy). I don't think she needs to be around him at all. He is a very bad influence on her. My parents have talked to her but she wont listen, she says she loves him. Do you think she is just going through a phase and will get over him and realize she doesn't need this guy

2007-03-23 14:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by airiv311 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You are the younger sister... don't fight with your sister over this guy. If she asks what you think, tell her you don't want to see your sister hurt and this guy seems to be big trouble. Hopefully he will be the one the police pick up and jail. If your sister has to spend some time in jail for drugs, maybe she will dump him. Jail is not a good place for any girl to be.

2007-03-23 14:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0 0

maybe she is going through a phase but to be honest whether its a phase or not it may be too late for her to get out of it if they have already got her into drugs....u better do everything and anything u can to get her away from this guy and those kinda ppl....shes at such an impressionable age...anyone can influence her especially male attention of any sort can make hher feel like she is in love with him.

Fact is
1)she is a minor
2)she has made the wrong choice and needs to be corrected
3)she wont listen to you or your parents
4)her boyfriend is a loser
5)your sister is vuklnerable to drugs and all vices related to it including violence

you need to do what u can to get rid of this guy, you know what just do what it takes.....even if she hates you for it...in future when she is older and sees that loser or hears about him being found dead somewhere in a dark valley she will come and thank you for practically saving her life!!

if i were you i would anonymously tipoff police about his drug habit or that he is a pusher and tell them that he is infuencing a MINOR with drugs etc etc and that her life is in danger...police will act immediately especially if there is a minor at risk.....

i know i would kick anyones butt just to make sure my sister or brother is safe.....

good luck babe

2007-03-23 22:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0 0

huh, sounds like a situation I was in a couple of months ago. Except I was the trouble guy...

her friends were fine untill they found out I had mafia ties... *cough-cough*

THE FACT IS girls are just attracted to troubled guys and bad *** jerks. It's sad but true. I used to be a "nice guy" untill I learned it was about the most turn-off thing a guy could ever do.

2007-03-23 21:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by krusty477 3 · 0 0

Listen man, if she's not listening to your parents, sit down with her (alone) and talk to her about it. Talk in quiet, easy, soft, calm tones. Don't act mad. Let all your love and concern for her show.

If this doesn't help, then you're gonna have to let her figure it out on her own. But kinda keep an eye on her if you really don't trust the guy. Discreetly.

2007-03-23 21:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0 0

Sounds just like me at that age. Stay invovled enough that she isn't doing drugs or getting involved with any of that, but as far as seeing this guy, trying to stop her will only make things worse and she'll get defensive. It should stop soon. Good luck!

2007-03-23 21:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by lexionvacation 2 · 0 0

ofcourse it's a phase. every girl who is told not to like a certain type always ends up doing just that. it's a form of uncontrollable rebellion.

2007-03-23 21:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Once, you make it clear that you don't like him and he is no good for her. It's all up to her from there. Sooner or later she'll see it. She has to see it her self. I think I know what i'm talking about i'm also 15.

Good Luck

2007-03-23 21:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0 0

Pet psychology:

To take a toy from the pet dog, give it a new toy. And, when it isn't looking, throw stinky old toy out

Did you find a gem in that?

2007-03-23 21:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

nope, shes just one of those girls who think skater guys are hot and end up getting cheated on and wonder why....

either shell get smart and realize shes being stupid, or shell end up getting hurt

2007-03-23 21:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0 0

Well if she's most definitely not listening to you or your parents, she'll end up finding things out the hard way. and she'll end up getting hurt.

but you should try your best to convince her out of the relationship.

2007-03-23 21:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Jamie. 3 · 0 0

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