We are both in high high school and we have been dating for almost a month. He is really sweet and funny but he is extremely clingy. He constantly asks if i'm ok when i'm quiet and when i tell him i'm just thinking he will ask me again in like 5 more minutes. Then when i go anywhere during lunch he follows me around everywhere. It bugs me a lot but i dont want to hurt his feelings because i know he means well. I also don't want to break up with him just because of something like that but it just gets really annoying. Please help me figure out what to do.
2007-03-23 14:32:37 · 15 answers · asked by music_is2cool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm having a few minor doubts about my relationship. (we're in 8th grade---we've been going out for 5 months!!)
My bf is very very loyal.....somewhat like yours. I find it flattering that he always cares, and puts my thoughts and feelings ahead of a lot of other things. I couldn't love it more! :]
Have u tried talking to your boyfriend about it? As a relationships move forward, things change. This could change?
Are you his 1st girlfriend? If so, then maybe he is clueless and figures this makes him look charming.
I think you should 1st try 2 save your relationship, and talk to him. If all else fails, end it......nobody should stay in an un-happy relationship.
Best Wishes!!
2007-03-23 14:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 13:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by brinton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be moving faster than you.
Explain to him that at your age and place in life, you want fun, he wants serious.
You like how sweet and funny he is - but there is also a clingy side. You need to find a balance that works for both of you.
2007-03-23 14:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Stan W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put your foot down about it and tell him how you feel. Don't be too hard on him though. If he's not wanting to respect your wishes then I think you're better off with someone else. Good luck to you!
2007-03-23 14:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG get out girl hes just a clingy lil turd and you obviously cant handle that . he prolly wont change so just do yourself a favor and scoot
2007-03-23 14:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever be preasured into being in something you dont want to do.................read all my other answers to young girls with boy troubles, and the #1 thing I believe in is RESPECT yourself!!!!!!!!! dont settle for anything less than whats is truely GOOD for you!!!!!!
mention it to him and talk about it if it clears up great, if not well then you maybe need to move on........good luck!!!use your brain, and follow your heart!
2007-03-23 14:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by hairstyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's new to relationships and thinks your wonderful. Gee, sucks to be you! Seriously though, smile, have fun - you're both young. It's dating, not marriage!
2007-03-23 14:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by FuzzyPinkBathrobe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of feel that way sometimes, just communicate it to him. See where it goes and then make your decision. I just tell her "I have to go."
2007-03-23 15:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG--GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP!!
He sounds a bit controlling by wantting to bee EVERYwhere you are!
2007-03-23 14:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by belligerent assistant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. You dont know whether or not it worls until you try telling him. Hope everything goes well...
2007-03-23 14:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋