i broke up with my bf 3 nights ago. he called me 3 times in a row that night but i didnt pick it up. and then he stopped.
Ever since thatt he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)
Now if i write him an email wanting him to want me too, what should i write in the email? should i write it short and simple or make it long and touching? which way would make him want me again?
PS: he broke up with me 3 months ago and came back 1 month ago. But still he hurt me a lot a lot, way more than what i did to him.
2007-03-23 14:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hurt you alot then why do you want him back? The two of you don't sound very solid. I see a lot of immaturity and jealousy in your relatlionship. you need to consider not only what you want, but what you need. Do that first. If you truly want to get him back then an email might not do the trick. Words don't work on men as much as women. They respond to action. If there is anyway you can see this fella then do so and put it on him! If your only solution is emailing then make it short and sweet. Men will get distracted trying to take in too much. Be honest and to the point!
2007-03-23 14:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go back out with him. If he did something bad enough for you to break up with him, he's not worth your time. And you're probably just missing him. Your probably thinking of all the good times with him. That's what always happens when you break up with a guy. I broke up with my latest ex bf. and I don't like him at all and then the second I did it I wanted him back. Think this over. Do you really like him? Think of all the stuff he's done to you.
2007-03-23 21:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is just doing all that stuff you mentioned, because he is hurting. I wouldn't write him an email. I would get together with him in person and talk wthings out. Be women enough to admit that you made a mistake. Hopefully you guys can work things out!!
2007-03-23 21:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by lillitaamojavy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, for 3 nights ago, he sure moved on pretty quickly adding a girl to list and 'looking' etc. I think this back n forth yoyo stuff is really a sign that it is meant to end....let it. You just need to give yourself time to get over him. Forget, the long drawn out letters.....once a guy rejects you in anyway, it is over.
2007-03-23 21:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me it seems like both of you are playing with each others mind. You both need to sit down and decide on whether you want to be together at all. I you're happy with him and you know things can work out then I say go for it, but if you have to fight yourself over whether to be with him you probably need to live him alone.
2007-03-23 21:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by monece2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should call him and just talk to him tell him you were confused but you wanna go back out with him. if tat dont work den ask him if it would be a problem 2 be friends.
dont be affraid remember ur all ready broke up watz the worst tat could happen?
2007-03-23 21:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by volleygurlkbs93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth your time, you need a bf that appreciates you and doesn't want to hurt you.( plus someone who would give you no reason to break up) you'll get over him, and you'll find a guy who wont hurt you.
2007-03-23 21:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by plastic.hearts.&&.paper.smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it how it is.
Why did you two break up in the first place???
I would have a better answer if I knew...
2007-03-23 21:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, if you go back to him now he will own you.
2007-03-23 21:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Al Bunn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
count your losses and move on..you burned the bridge...sorry
2007-03-23 21:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋