(serious answers only)I have lots of friends w/ bfs. They never call me. Theyrre alway w/ theyre bfs or talking about them. I seem 2 get lonelier and lonlier. No one 2 hug or kiss. No one to talk to. no one to hang out w/. What can I do 2 stop the empty feeling inside? I always feel like crying.
2007-03-23 14:13:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They should know a boy to set u up with.
2007-03-31 00:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I am the same way, I've only been on a few dates my entire life (17 y/o) and most of my friends have bf's and I get sick of feeling left out too! One thing to do is throw yourself into activities so that you can develop new interests and therefore connect with new people who have those same interests. Another thing that I did was just befriend girls who were single like me, it's funner that way because I can say "hey that guy is hot!!" without her being like "but not as hot as [insert bfs name here + goo goo eyes]"
As for the bf thing, well it happens at least once for everyone, but as I always have to remind myself EVERYDAY (haha) "A watched pot never boils" meaning don't go looking for love because the sweetest love will find you itself. I know that's corny but hey you gotta have hope.
2007-03-31 15:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you...I'm older, and many of my friends have gotten married and gone off to have kids, so while I haven't grown up, they have and now it's hard to stay in contact. At the same time, it's hard to find a whole new circle of friends.
When I have the energy (I work a lot), I plan on joining some clubs to meet new people. The more people you have in your life, the more likely you'll find people to hang out with and/or prospective boyfriends/mates to settle down with (if that's what you're looking for).
The key is finding things you like to do as a person/individual, then finding other people who like to do them as well. The more your interacting with new people over common interests, the more likely you'll find some common ground with them and either bond with them as friends or find someone to date/go out with socially.
Admittedly, I haven't done it yet, but I travel 1/3 of the year so it's a little different for me (hard to go to club meetings on a regular basis if you're in Austin one week and Chicago the next), but if you mainly stay in the area, it's time to branch out and find some new friends.
Hope that helps!
2007-03-23 21:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Females are so much worse than guys when it comes to ditching their friends when they start dating someone. I would suggest getting yourself some guy friends to hang out with. It is also something for you to keep in mind when you have a bf - make time for your friends. A good friend is usually around a lot longer than the boyfriends.
2007-03-23 21:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get some single friends to hang out with. One day you will have a BF and you will be able to hang with the coupled friends. Be positive, people like positive people.
2007-03-23 21:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by hollingto 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While I don't feel as depressed as you seem to be, I too often feel lonely because I don't have a gf.
But, that's ok. I know that I have to be patient and the lord will deliver my queen to me.
I still go out and try to talk to women, but instead of getting with a girl for the sake of a hook-up, I try to wait for quality over a wham bam thank ma'am.
You'll be ok. Your prince will come to you.
2007-03-23 21:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a boyfriend or new friends if they can't make time with their boyfriends 4 u they don't deserve u as a friend
or join a club that takes up most of Ur time so u don't have that lonely feeling inside u might even get a boyfriend in the process
2007-03-23 21:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by `Avenging~ghetto~bird` 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be so needy guys can tell when a girl is needy and wants to be in a relationship and that scares them away. Try to keep busy the more u go out the more chance u have of meeting someone. Guys like girls who show that they don't need a man to define who they are.
2007-03-23 21:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you shouldn't be on here asking us for advice obviously if all your friends have bfs then you should ask them for advice on how to find the right guy or just hook up with one of their bfs friends and see how that goes..otherwise stop crying and just wait for someone to come to you..
2007-03-31 13:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by krazi3_303 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to me i know how you feel i never had a girl friend or anything and i am alone most of the day so if you would like to talk to me that fine with me iam online 24/7
2007-03-23 21:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wish i could be more helpful but just try harder to hang out with them. its not right for them to hang out with their bfs that probly wont even last over a good friend theyve nown for way longer and will probly be friends with for way longer. make more of an effort to hang with them. tell them how u feel. that u want to hang out and how it makes u feel when their paying more attention to their bfs than u.
2007-03-23 21:19:37 · answer #11 · answered by Therapist in need of therapy! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋