i like this guy and i was planning on telling him...because all my friends wanted me too...well...today...like a couple hours ago..i found out that he was going to ask this girl named becca out...and i was wondering...should i still tell him how i feel or should i just not tell him and let him and becca be happy together?
2007-03-23 14:03:39 · 26 answers · asked by rat_leg danny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait for him to ask the question again...if at the time of the asking, you still kinda like him, tell him so. But right now, don't tell him anything...maybe he himself doesn't who to ask (you or Becca).
I hope everything goes your way. I wish you the best.
2007-03-23 14:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait verything out first. Dont rush anything with him, because right now, he has his eyes on Becca. But if things dont happen for him the way he wants it too..use this tactic...after Becca rejects him and breaks his heart...be his shoulder to cry on, and let him confide in you...after all is said and done, tell him how you feel...but then again that might not work, because depending on how hurt he is over Becca's rejection, he might not want to be with anyone, or they could get together (who know?)...but just wait things out...and do what you think is best
2007-03-23 21:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by girliegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky situation. Ok are you ready for any response you might get from him if you tell him? it seems as though he likes someone else because if it was you he would be asking you out instead of becca don't you think? I think he has already made his choice let him go it might be better if you let it be!
2007-03-23 21:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. He may be using Becca as a substitute until he thinks you like him. I've had this problem before, but with girls. I just told them how I felt and I guess they thought it was all romantic and stuff, =). So yes, you should tell him how you feel, if I were him, I would like to know how any girl feels about me.
2007-03-23 21:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ben R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your pride and tell him, Now, before its too late... Dont worry if he rejects you but just think he may not - maybe he doesnt know you like him so you dont have any time to waste. Just go easy with how you say it - make him aware that you like him without saying too much - sorry I know this is hard to do but just take your time, the words will come to you. Ask people who know him if he has talked about you. Sometimes rumors start (like about him going to aks Becca out) because some people could be liking him aswell and they dont want you to ask him.... Just do it and dont regret not doing it - life is too short.
2007-03-23 21:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by gudsport 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
carpe diem..that means seize the day so seize the day and let him know b4 its too late maybe him and becca arent meant to be things happen for a reason just go for it and good luck sometimes certain things need to be intervened its nice of you to think of beccas feelings but sometimes you have to think about what you want too and good luck with everything
2007-03-23 21:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never hold back you should let him know how you feel. you never know, he might feel the same but be nervous and afraid. he might think that asking becca out is the easiest way out of his anxiety. there are many things that can be going through his mind but you'll never know if you dont ever try.
good luck
2007-03-23 21:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by jasmin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't let him know how you feel about him now then it will be to late in a couple days. I would do it as soon as you can because you never know what might happen and you could be regretting not telling him for a very, very long time.
Live every day like it's your last and with no regrets.
2007-03-23 21:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel, even if he is going to ask
Becca out, it's better he know your feeling , you never know he may have feelings for you
2007-03-23 21:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by astrid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off. Nobody likes a girl who steals a man. Just try to let them be happy. They most likly won't be going out for a long time. Wait till they break up and then make your move.
2007-03-23 21:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋