i like this guy. and everyone thinks that he likes me but i dunno. when we talk he always looks me in eye and flirts with me. for example, im reading the sisterhood of the traveling pants book, and one day in class he took the book, opened it and was like "look im in your pants" which i thought was hilarious btw. but he flirts with my friend ashley (shes a HUGE flirt) and i see him hugging other girls too. we barley talk out of class but when we do, he always smiles and gives me a high-five.
i just want to tell him i like him really bad, but i dont want it to reuin our friendship
what should i do!??
2007-03-23 14:01:18 · 24 answers · asked by alex h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might like you, but, just like you said, you dot want to ruin your friendship with him, so dont make it very obvious that you like him (i did that with a guy and he wont even acknowledge that i exist anymore) just be yourself and you might just get a new boyfriend
best of luck to you :)
2007-03-23 14:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kooper4Ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be brave and follow your heart tell him how you feel and see if he feel the same way wait for his reaction if he does feel the same way then try to hook up with him and take it from there. If he doesn't then don't worry about it just say friends and shake on it don't get upset and be depress 4 ever because it's not worth it and + their are more fishes in the sea then just him.
2007-03-23 21:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcandy_tolick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the really same situation as you, i think he might like you but mostly as a friend but maybe not, i think the best way to find out that does he likes you is that some of your friends ask him(boys better) because i couldn't ask him by myself cause i was too shy. but there are lots of guys who talk and hug lots of girls but you don't really know who they love. anyway it is good to have a try.
2007-03-23 21:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh i say hes just a really flirty type...cos he flirts with you as well as he flirts with ashley and he huggs other girls too..maybe he gets along better with girls than guys....maybe you should flirt with him more and if he freaks out then you know that he wants to be only a friend...if he flirts back...he likes you!!! good luck :)
2007-03-23 21:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by xxx_amber_baby.gurl_xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem awhile back...and i almost told the guy i liked him....'til i found out that he liked my best friend....then she told me that he was such a lady's man and a pretty boy. so just give it time, and look for signs of him showing that he really likes you and he's not just playing you by flirting with you. you dont wanna get your heart broken! good luck!
2007-03-23 21:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
if you find what he said funny then you are just low and laugh at anything
anyways yah he clearly doesnt have his mind SET on you, if hes flirting with your friend ally and hugging other girls. and hi-5's is DEFINETLY a friend thing. who gives hi5's to the girls they like?
2007-03-23 21:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dick Tracy Vol.2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sounds like somthing i had. I liked this guy who was going out with this girl, but she didn't really like him. when she dumped him (today) one of my other friends mentioned to him that i liked him. so he asked me out and i said yes. heres what you should do. first of all, looks are one deadly weapon. if you look hot, maybe he'll get your attention. You should start major flirting with him. Any moment you can get by him and talk to him. l8er on, have a friend tell him you like him, but have her do it so that you "don't know" hopefully he'll say yes. good luck!
2007-03-23 21:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by bd10e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seriously are going through what i went through. since i dont need sumbody else getting hurt the way i did, please dont say anything at all. the guy is definitely just a flirt. Well, mine was and when i told him i liked him, everybdoy just laughed and that year was horrible.
2007-03-23 21:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by asian chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. Let things take their course.
And, lucky you, it's a 4 book series. You can keep the joke going. :)
2007-03-23 21:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he liked you he would talk to you outside of class, like on myspace , msn or the phone. He's just popular.
2007-03-23 21:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋