Ok, so my boyfriend flirts all the time with other girls. He doesn't just mess around, he seriously flirts. I confronted it to him today.. and I talked to one of his friends who I'm pretty close with. My boyfriend got all defensive and didn't think he did anything wrong. Did he do anything wrong or am i just making a big deal out of this. And what would you do?
2007-03-23 14:01:06 · 15 answers · asked by love_alw_693 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he's being honest, he's porbably just a big flirt who's a sucker for cute girls. If he's doing it to tick you off, end it. He's not worth your time. Just use your intuition, and don't dump him if he truely doesnt notice. Next time, if he says something suggestive to another girl make a joke about it, maybe something that would embarress him so he wouldn't be so keen on doing it again...*evil cackle*
No, don't really do that! Just talk it out calmly. That works best, I don't suggest getting back at him, that gets out of hand...revenge is the Lord's...
2007-03-23 14:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are making a big deal out of nothing. There is nothing worse in a relationship than feeling insecure. He is making you feel that way by flirting with other girls. If he really cares about you and know that this behavior bothers you, he should stop.
2007-03-23 21:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to decide sooner or later, just how much this bothers you. If you reckon serious flirting is ok you'll have to learn to live with it. If not, cut him loose and look for a guy who isn't so flirty. I hate relationship fights. They are such a waste of time and energy. If this guy is worth the aggravation, keep your eyes open for active cheating.. its easy to go from flirting to cheating. Take Care
2007-03-23 21:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you so uncomfortable you should look for a different boyfriend. You cannot control another person, the more you try the more irritated he will become. It seems to me that you do not feel secure in your relationship and do not trust him and that is why you are concerned about his flirting.
If it were me, I would not be concerned because I know that my position is strong with my guy. I don't get bent out of shape because for him it's just fun. I KNOW that he is coming home to me.
2007-03-23 21:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Misty B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just naturally flirty. idk i would try to deal with it for a little while but if u find that it drives a wedge between the two of u i would leave him cause if he;s a natural flirt then hes not gonna change. you could ask him to try not to flirt as much and he may be reacting defensivly because he may think ur insecure in your relationship
2007-03-23 21:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your boyfriend should not be flirting with other girls while he is in a commited relationship with you, thats wrong...
2007-03-23 21:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not making a bog deal out of this if he wont stop then break up with him but if yall really do like each other then yall should talk to eachother and tell him to be a real boyfriend with you
2007-03-23 21:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he is not showing the respect that you deserve, and does not take the relationship seriously. you may have strong feelings for this guy but you are going to have to throw him back in the water girlfriend, there are way more fish in the sea!
2007-03-23 21:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by amey t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is a natural part of everyones life im sure if you pay attention you might even catch yourself doing it with out even thinking about it
2007-03-23 21:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes flirting hard then hes cheating hard, leave him before you feel like you got a bf watch,(always watching his moves) which sucks real bad
2007-03-23 21:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋