I like this boy at my school. And i asked him out 2 times and he said no 2 times. i cried. I want him really really realy bad. i am not trying to sound desperate but i do. he has a girlfriend, but he doesn't really like her. me and him aren't friends and i don't know him, he is just hot, and i want to be his girlfriend. what do i do to make him say yes? please do not be mean. and don't say "don't try" because i want to try.
2007-03-23 13:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said no twice. stop being a fool and go find another boy.
2007-03-23 13:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this doesn't make any since. First problem, HE HAS A GF. Second problem, he's rejected 2 times. The only possible solution....Is to catch him on the rebound if he gets dumped by his GF. And stop being the giggling girl in the corner of the room staring at him. Become friends with him, but play off liking him, act like its not a big deal. On a real note this rarely works, being a friend wont matter if he doesn't find you physically attractive And don't say i have a great personality case he has to think your cute.
2007-03-23 14:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, poor thing...I can relate. ;(
Hate to tell you, but if he's rejected you he isn't worth it. He isn't worth YOU! You're special and one-of-a-kind, remember that and never let anyone, no matter how "hot" they are, bring you down. I HAVE BEEN THERE, DONE THAT and its a waste of your time. Find someone who appreciates you. I know it may take awhile to get over him, but you will. As Amy Grant (a singer from the '80's and '90's) says in her song "You're Not Alone", "Love can soothe what love has burned". Look around, there's load of fish in the ocean and they'd be happy to have a g/f as dedicated as you. Keep your chin up, it'll be alright, hun. :)
2007-03-23 14:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you said not to tell you "don't try". So if you are determined to impose yourself on someone who so obviously does not want you... appeal to him sexually. It's your ONLY recourse! Guys can't resist it, no matter what.
Ideas; Flash your breasts or panties at him when no one else is looking, or make other obscene gestures privately (like simulating oral sex, etc). That will work, I guarantee it.
But a better answer would be to go find some self-esteem and a better boyfriend.
2007-03-23 14:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kia A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt go out with someone just because they are hot. if you two end up having nothing in common, you will end up like his current girlfriend and he wont like you. i would try and be his friend first before you try and go out with him
2007-03-23 13:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ...you sound like me when i was in grade 10 .... add me to yahoo i will tell you what to do...
cause me and the guy i was chasing and was desperate for, last 2 years now :D
blazzingred30@yahoo.com
2007-03-23 13:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by blazzingred30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be persistent, keep trying, until you decided to give up, i know if you really want something bad enough, you'll give it all you got, so i believed that one day you and him will be friends, or even girlfriend and boyfriend. so keep on doing what you're doing, good things are hard to get.
2007-03-23 13:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u like him keep trying. If he is really worth it u will know. Get 2 know him and c if u really like him or just cuz hes hott. Then u will know wat 2 do.
2007-03-23 13:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats a great reason to like someone...."...i dont know him, he is just hot!"
2007-03-23 13:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋