Would you wanna know if your boyfriend was a serious cheater?

Question

and a player to other girls but he loved you and offered you everything?how would you like to find out?
..and what would you do if you found out?would you break up or stay cos he loves YOU?

Answer 1

i think its best to know the real raw deal... even if it hurts and you think you love them and you THINK you can't live without them, and you THINK they are the ones for you, even though people around might say that he is really not good for you, yada, yada, yada, yada, at the end, knowing he is a player is good for you, cause now you know his real colors, and you'll find someone better than him, yes people, it IS possible.

Answer 2

seems like you are a bit confused. seriously, if he loved 'you' and offered you everything, but his fidelity, that is like a paradox, a contradiction in terms.
what do you mean 'offered you everything'? moneywise , protection, emotional security, tenderness, sex? Because as far as emotional security... looks like it's a lost game here. I think you both keep the relationship because you are getting something out of it, something that doesn't have to do with love or respect.
If I would stay, I wouldn't stay ''because he loves ME''. people who are narcissists don't love you. they love themselves and they love what others give to them. so , I would stay only if I loved him and I couldn't force myself to leave him. But eventually one day I would have enough. and then I would walk out of the door and never look back.
but if were someone to fool myself that a player loves me, maybe I would stay.
but be warned. loves comes eventually. true love. even for players. and then you can see how a trainwreck looks like.
for the time being... ask yourself if you love him. but I think you know that answer , don't you? it's mutual delusion to get what one wants, isn't it?

Answer 3

You must know for yourself that he is a player because you are asking this question, but as my daddy always said to me,"If someone is your friend they would never want to see you hurt so they shouldn't bring you no-bad news.But think of it like I do, I don't want to know because I will never let him see me sweat but I would consider myself the head queen and if he really loves you then there should be no one else, not even to keep up his reputation. If he was a player before he got with you than why are you asking these questions.

Answer 4

Well no i wouldnt because i would spend all my time that hes away from me worrying about where hes at, who hes with, whos bed is he in i mean if you had a good bf you shouldnt be thinking or worrying that hes cheating on you.NO! ive been cheated on before and i did not stay even when he said he loved me because if you really truthfully love someone you would not hurt them by cheating

Answer 5

If hes honestly serious. like seriously serious about you. then he wouldnt cheat in the first place. and if he did, well that just makes him a BIG LIAR. and goes to show that he DOESNT love u. now, you wouldnt want to stay with a liar and cheater like that would you?

Answer 6

he could offer me the whole world but if he can't keep it in his pants with everyone else, i would leave his @ss.
there are too many diseases out there these days to just be playing fast and loose. but more than that---i want someone who is committed solely to me, not half the women in the county.

Answer 7

Get over him he doesn't love u but is trying 2 get "status" whatever that means 2 guys.

Answer 8

I would drop him fast, theirs so many diseases out there and so many faithful guys, you don't need a person like that in your life. If your a kid and like to play games then buy yourself a toy.