okay, ive already asked a question kinda like this, but i need more answers....
me & my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months,, & we havent kissed yet.
we have hugged alot though.
this would not be mine or his first kiss, so, yeah..
but when should we do it ?
& keep in mind, that i dont have my own car or anything.
and we dont drive to dates by ourselfs, our parents take us.
so, its not like we can make out or anything in the car.
i`m only 14 & he is the same age.
so give me good advice.
& not BS.
k. later <3
2007-03-23 13:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by lemscheerhottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep in mind that once you start doing sexual things, it's hard to stop at one level. Just make sure you're ready for that. Once you kiss him, it may be hard for him to be satisfied with that. And everything you give, you can't have back. Just be ready to deal with that.
2007-03-23 13:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but if you are 14 years old, you should be giving priority to your school assignments and striving for good grades so that you can be a success in later life. Romance should be put on hold for later. You are worrying too much about a lack of progress in your friendship. Concentrate for now on being good buddies and respecting each other and not allowing your relationship to affect your studies.
2007-03-23 13:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had kinda the same problem when i was ur age...its been 2 months so if u think its time to get a bit more intimate...kiss him on the cheek and do that for a while till ur really comfortable with it then give him a quick kiss on the lips then after u get comfortable with that...everything will just flow...but only do what u want to and what ur comfortable with...dont do anything u'll regret but take some risks because thats what life is all about...Good luck
l8er...xoxo
2007-03-23 13:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's kind of embarrasing to kiss with a parent in the car, but a quick good night kiss when you are he is being dropped off is a good start. It's cool for either of you to initiate it. Just make sure you didn't eat onions first, unless he did too (my husband and I used to do that when we were dating)
2007-03-23 13:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do it at 14.
2007-03-23 13:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 14 also.
Really I know how you feel, sometimes i wonder that question too.
The really only answer i can give you is when it feels right, (but although it feels right now it's not the right time) you should wait until you beleive you're having sexual intercourse for the right reasons (having a baby with the one you love).
-Zac
2007-03-23 13:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by !!ZAAAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well me and my ex-boyfriend always went over to each others houses and did it there. And don't rush getting a kiss. It needs to be special and heartfelt, regardless of whether it's the first kiss or the hundredth. Maybe when you hug or him something, give him a peck on the cheek or, if you really feel bold, a quickie on the lips. Don't freak him out by lip-locking or French-kissing YET, just take it slow. And please, please, please, don't waste your kisses! Everytime you kiss someone, you give them a piece of you that won't ever be yours again. <3
2007-03-23 13:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop posting the same question over and over, it's annoying. Do you really feel the need to be the center of attention at all times?
2007-03-23 13:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it after the date is over, when you're just waiting for your parents to pick you up. Hold hands, and hug. Then just go for it.
2007-03-23 13:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to be on this board honey. These are grown ups talking about grown up type things... now go away.
2007-03-23 13:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋