I have an ex-boyfriend who seems to always want to come back. He has a girlfriend, but claims to be "stuck" with her. I try to get away from him, by not talking to him but he always looks for me. I've told him numerous times to move on because he has a girlfriend, but he finds ways to tell me that he wants me back and says that i'm the only one who really seems to be there for him, like i always have been. He's cheated on her and left her once for me. I left him because I didn't want anything with him and not to mention problems. Im just confused and don't know how to work things out with him.
2007-03-23 13:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by soccagal17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you are never stuck with someone you are there by choice. Second, if he wants you back because you are always there from him when he needs someone than stop being there for him when he needs someone. Third, do you feel like you deserve to be treated like that? He basically uses you until he feels better than runs off with that other chick. I’m sure you can do better, ignore him and he will go away.
2007-03-23 14:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by hollingto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like someone who wants his cake and eat it! You have to ask yourself. Do you love him? Can you see a future together without him cheating and you two happy? If yes, then he must leave his girlfriend but he must tell her the truth.
Speaking as the 'girlfriend', i found out last Sunday my boyfriend who i just bought a house with has been having an affair with his ex and persueing her for nearly a year! Oh i am 37 weeks pregnant too and due anyday! I have known him for 2 years. Well thought i did!
I cried and have felt soo heartbroken that despite what he has done he is lying to me and has been taking me for a fool for the past year.
At first i was angry at her until i realised it was his decision and when i thought he loved me he really didnt.
Please dont be the other woman, cause his girlfriend may genuinely love him and although this isnt your fault you will always be the reason to this girl why he left.
I dont know how i am going to feel in my future relationships but know that a broken heart is so real and wouldnt wish this on anyone.
I also see it that he will cheat on his ex and he has no respect for women.
I think you deserve better and hope you make the decision that is right for you.
x
2007-03-23 14:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on her......don't think you're so special that things will be different. For every different girl he'll just find a different excuse....including you. Drop the loser
2007-03-23 13:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated on her he'll cheat on you. Keep that in mind and be careful.
2007-03-23 13:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋