In a relationships do you look for personality or looks?
or both?
or if you only look for personality do you want someone that isnt so hot and not to ugly?
2007-03-23 13:27:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality, Looks Can Always Fade!
2007-03-23 13:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not important, but I do still care about how the guy looks. Personality is the most important because that's what really makes two people attract together into a relationship. Looks are just what people see the outside of you. However, the way you look reflects the way how you carry yourself or if you're confident or not. But a person's personality is what really wins a person's heart, not their looks.
In relationships, I look for personality. But i do want a guy who is decent looking too. I like guys that have a balance between looks and personality, that would be my ideal guy.
2007-03-23 20:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I see it. Looks is what reels a person in. If you are not physically attracted to someone, then it's hard to have any kind of spark. However after initial contact, it's personality that is what makes someone want to get into a relationship of some sort. I know that I have met some beautiful girls that have a bad personality and I was turned off. Then I met the nicest girls, but I had no physical attraction. You need a combination of both to have that chemistry and spark.
2007-03-23 20:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality and looks...... I prefer to say personality and sexual attraction. You have to have the desire to want to be with that person, touch, hold, kiss, ect. Although their personality takes a large portion of the attraction part. You could have an incredibly attractive person, but if they cannot speak, carry on a decent conversation or do not know how to treat people, then this would make them unattractive in another way, which may become repulsive.
2007-03-23 20:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by angela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. Personality is really important, but if you're not attracted to the person physically, what's the point?
Though it is worth noting that when you are attracted to someone's personality, you are far more likely to think they are attractive. There are people out there that you would think were ugly if you didn't see them being charming to begin with. Conversly, I have been seriously repulsed by guys who would be attractive if they were'nt such a**holes.
2007-03-23 20:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by mina_lumina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, yeah. that's a given that the personality is the most important. because what is the use in dating someone that looks good and acts like an as s?
what good would come of that?
yeah, you might make beaustiful babies, but you would be divorced, because you couldn't get along
i have never met someone who said ' boy, he's really ugly, but i like his personality, so he's in'
or said, 'he's really hot but a total jerk, i think i'll go for him'
common sence tells you that you want someon who is sweet ,caring, loving, attentive, fun, etc.
looks are just icing on the cake...
2007-03-23 20:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEITHER. the fact that someone has a 'personality' or killer looks does not mean it's a good person. and more it doesn't mean it's a good person FOR YOU.
the dilemma looks vs. personality is totally fake. you have to look deeper than that. what is really inside the other person, if he cares for you, if you care for him, if you are compatible and can communicate is real stuff.
stop looking for 'credentials', that is a surefire way to failure. experience will teach what YOU need out of man and how to get it.
if I say go for 'looks' or go for personality, it's completely irrelevant. it's about you, only you. besides you'll know what you want when you see it.
2007-03-23 20:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the end, everyone gets old & ugly. personality matters more, but you need to find the person passably attractive to start a relationship though.
2007-03-23 20:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both , but more on personalities. Looks aren't everything , it's what inside that counts :)
2007-03-23 20:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need both. Need a great personality and pretty good looks, or a babe with a pretty good personality.
2007-03-23 20:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋