Last year at the end of school i told a guy i like him. when he found out he wouldnt talk to me, wouldnt look at me or anything. Over the summer i thought i was over him then i came back to school and those emotions came flooding back. i still like him more than i have ever liked another guy. he has a girlfriend so i dont stand a chance besides that hes the hottest and most popular guy in school. i cant get him out of my head.
2007-03-23 13:22:06 · 7 answers · asked by Courtney B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else to crush on or focus on all of his bad points. Look for something disgusting about him and that will be a major turnoff. And once you find that, just think of it whenever you have those "feelings" for him again. <3
2007-03-23 13:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear C,
Life ain't fair. But then, you get burned a little, insulted, and your love gets stomped on. And none of that ain't fair. To use an old cliche` Where is it written that life must be fair?
When you get 20 years older, you will wish you had every ounce of love that you have now, and invested it in someone you knew but aren't even looking at right now. But, the you of right now, can only feel unrequited love.
Don't worry about him right now. He's feeling very full of himself right now. Instead of he chasing the girls, they are chasing him. Stay away from that heartbreaking machine. You can learn from your short-comings and look deeper into people, guys, to see the real love. It is something that he will only learn when someone snags his heart as payback.
Just count this as your first, but easy, lesson in an unfair world.
2007-03-23 13:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face the truth, that if he were at all interested, he would have already talked to you last year. The emotion you can't get over is rejection. Please, recognize that you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You don't want to force someone to like you. You're obsessing over him simply because you can't have him. Look around you. Smile at the other guys around you. You'll find that some of them have been interested in you but you've been too blinded by the popular guy to notice any of them.
2007-03-23 13:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's a real jerk. But that doesnt matter because you cant control who you fall for. I havent totally figured this one out myself, but I would say you just have to let your affections for him run their course and fade away on there own. It seems as though he's made it clear he isn't interested in you the same way, so this is probably your best choice of action.
2007-03-23 13:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's a real jerk. But that doesnt matter because you cant control who you fall for. I havent totally figured this one out myself, but I would say you just have to let your affections for him run their course and fade away on there own. It seems as though he's made it clear he isn't interested in you the same way, so this is probably your best choice of action.
2007-03-23 13:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey, he has someone, so he isn't interested. Don't give your power away..save your heart for someone who may be right under your nose..if you stay hung up on "the one who got away" you will miss other opportunities..
2007-03-23 13:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more girlfriends. i tell you whether you're 16 or 62, there's nothing better to help you get through tough times than your girlfriends.
2007-03-23 13:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋