okay, well, me & my boyfriend have been dating, for almost two months now.
& we havent kissed yet or anything.
so, when would be the right time for us to do it.. & we cant do it after school, its not allowed at our school.
i mean, like at a movie maybe ?
but when during the movie ?- and when theres another couple with you ! "?!?
help.
oh & no smart remarks.
that gets oldddd.
later. <3
2007-03-23 13:08:59 · 35 answers · asked by lemscheerhottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, i`m not ugly.
& yes weve hugged, many manyy times.
& give me some reasonable answers please, i`m only 14.
2007-03-23 13:20:19 · update #1
When you guys are saying good night to each other, just give him a nice hug, look him in the eyes and lean in a little bit! If he doesn't kiss you first he is prob. shy, I know it may be scary but he will prob be happy if you end up kissing him 1st! And believe me, he isn't going to just sit there and not kiss you if you tried, so it would be like you both went for it, not you alone.
Just try and be comfortable and do it when it feels right! I would suggest when you are alone not with other people.
2007-03-23 13:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by CRAZYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm older than you by a fair margin. I'm also a guy. So I've got two strikes going against me as it is. But I'm not gonna BS you.
The right time is when you can't wait any longer, FOR YOUR SAKE, not his. Also, don't feel pressured to french right away. Pinching and nibbling with your lips is just as affectionate.
When the two of you get past the holding REAL close stage, ending a date with a french conveys the meaning that you really had a good time and its his reward for being so nice.
See, because it is so rare of you to do it, it makes it a special moment because it is so rare.
Try passing him a candy or mint during the movie. He'll be surprized, and hey, its almost a french. No farther on the day of first kiss. That way there is somewhere to progress towards.
2007-03-23 13:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you two meet up some where private?
Like say for instance, the park? or the mall? some place you both can talk...You know? Then you guys talk, when the times right slowly move in for the kiss, don't rush in to it! Let is be something you both can Cherish for ever! ^^ & if you guys can't hang out any where other then the movie's & school, then kiss him in the theature! If there's others around you that you feel uncomfortable with kissing in front of, then say your going to go sit some where else for a better view! Then move your head close to his, look into his eyes, & slowly kiss him...AGAIN SLOWWW it has so much more meaning that way! Oh oh & no tongue! Not the first kiss! make it a tender kiss..Alright then say the third kiss you can slip some tongue ;) hehe...
Hope I've helped!
♥-Love- ♥
2007-03-23 13:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, ignore that last comment, you can be pretty and not slutty or move fast, so she doesn't know what she's talking about. When it comes to this guy just wait for the right time. If you are wanting it to happen soon, then make it toward the end of the movie or date. The end is best so there isn't much weird silence time after the kiss. But if the kiss is good, then you don't really have much time to go further, in case you are tempted. Honestly, the first kiss is usually weird anyways. You will be fine! Good Luck!
2007-03-23 13:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by TakenByTheRhettster 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you are very young and also is your first or a kind of your first boyfriend, let me tell you something, whenever it happens enjoy it, it is one of those moments you remind for a long time...
An old friend of mine told me, that a relationship it doesn't matter if you end getting married or not with him/her, what is more important is to get experience and build up good memories, don't get mad if things don't end the way you like, understand it like a part of your growth, and learning.
Good luck, and by the way the first kiss I gave to my girlfriend it was in a parking lot at the time I opened the door of my car a Sunday night after watch Gladiator in a movie teather, she looked gorgeous...
2007-03-23 13:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by elrizo911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. You don't say how old you are. I am assuming that neither of you have had your first kiss if you have been dating for two months without even one kiss. I would say the right time for your first kiss will be when the urge just suddenly hits you when it's just the two of you together. If you start it, just kiss him lightly on the cheek, near the mouth and then stay close enough for him to return the kiss, but maybe gently on the lips.
Enjoy the anticipation!
2007-03-23 13:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is certainly time for a hug..
perhaps after dinner or movie when you are about to go in, give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
Getting kissed will probably happen either then or sometime soon on another date.
2007-03-23 13:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow, how old are you??
I don't know how you can date someone for 2 months and not even kiss them. That is truly a feat of physics. Just go somewhere with him when it's just the two of you, a movie is good or a concert or a restaurant or the beach or a park...anywhere is good for kissing. If there is another couple with you then try to sort of go off by yourselves for a while.
2007-03-23 13:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
awww you two sound soooo cute. Just DO it! Just kiss him when you feel like it. So you wanna kiss him in the movies just uhh hint ur friend that you two wanna go the bathrooms, and then...KISS him then (a light kiss on the lips), say you'll be back. And be cute! Then when its time to go home and they night is over then kiss him all you want. go crazy! good luck gurl. =)
2007-03-23 13:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one says you HAVE to kiss. There really is no big rush. Don't jump into things too quickly. You don't know for sure how long this thing will last. Kisses are too precious to give them away to just anybody. Make sure he is it. The best way? Only time will tell. Somethings are nicer when they are rare.
2007-03-23 13:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by teaching7 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋