I like this guy. We talk heaps and we have a few common interests. He teases me and when i talk to him sometimes he looks into my eyes for just a second longer. He helps me out sometimes and i help him. Some days we talk heaps and then others not at all and if this happens he keeps looking at me from across the room. If he's talking to someone else he keeps looking at me. The thing is we never really used to talk and i know that if a guy isn't interested he only really talks if he has to. This guy doesn't have to and he does all of the time anyway. could this mean something or am i just thinking too much?
2007-03-23 13:07:37 · 17 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is always looking at you then he is interested.
2007-03-23 13:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok trista.
this DOES mean something. of course it does. unless youre exagerating a little, but if youre not, then it DOES mean something. if he looks into your eyes, even when hes talking to other people, then it means something. first of all, talk to him a little more, walk with him (preferebly alone) and wait. if he doesnt tell u anything about liking u or inviting u somewhere, then do this. i think this is the best way to tell a guy you like him. and usually, the guy will take it very well. when he is sitting alone, go up to him, sit down with him, and say "u know, i really like u" and at the same time lay against is shoulder. and stay there try to not get nervous, and wait for a response. this really works, im telling u. try it, and youll definitely get to something. i wish u so much luck!!!!!!!!! if u need anything else, dont worry, and ask me!!!!!
2007-03-23 20:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Andy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that assuming guys don't talk unless they're interested is a bad idea. However, in this case, it's sounds like he's pretty into you. Don't torture yourself trying to guess how he feels. On one of the days that you "talk heaps," bring up
a. going out
b. if he's interested in anyone
or
c. be upfront w. your curiosity
I can't give the exact best choice because I don't know all of the specifics. It is my experience, though, that lack of communication causes a lot of harm. Sometimes it's tricky or embarassing to find out about someone's feelings, but get creative. The aftermath of not communicating is worse than the potentially awkward conversation.
2007-03-23 20:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, trust your instincts. Sounds like he's into you, but it depends on the subliminal signals you receive. The eyelock is big, as is making the effort ot talk to you.
I say go for it. Hold that eyelock as long a she does - don't break until he does. Do it from across a room. If he hangs in fro a loooong moment, smile slowly at him. He'll get the message.
Watch his eyes - shiny and large means he's very interested. So does a lip-lick, touching his hair or body (unconscious preening behaviour)
Do you ever discuss intimate/sexual stuff? If so, that's a giveaway he's thinkking about you.
2007-03-23 20:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Randy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he likes u because i do the same exact thing i look at her from across the room or row and stare into her eyes once in a while to see if i can get a spark out of it
2007-03-23 20:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by alex a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he feels comfortable talking to you. It sounds like he see something in you that has caught his eye. He doesn't know how to tell you just yet. The next time you talk to him just ask him. Kinda slide it into the conversation. You will never know if you don't ask. Go for it. I think he likes you.
2007-03-23 20:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Seanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r thinking too much and u are making some general conclusions which are wrong too.. but as a matter of fact by the way u said he treats you i think he likes u! eye contact, teasin and all this talkin are more than enough signs to show u that! good luck
2007-03-23 20:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by manosn1b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking too much and looking for a sign that may not be there or ever get there. people see expressions in your face that you aren't aware you are giving and they act accordingly. maybe your look is causing his gaze to linger to try to figure out what you are trying to tell him.
2007-03-23 20:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like YOU are a "chatty Cathy". When you talk again put on the brakes, and let him go where he wants to.
2007-03-23 21:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by JON O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him about everything that you would like to know? Talking about it could solve your problems!
2007-03-23 20:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rosette H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋