Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks now and its been fun lately. You know what all couples go through when they first start talking. I've been dying to kiss is lips since day one. But one day over the phone we was talking about this dude that had kissed this nasty girl and he was like thats why he dont kiss. I asked him why? he was like because females do nasty things. He will give them one on the cheek or the forehead. Im not like that. Should i be hard headed and steal a kiss from him anyway, wait a while longer or agree with him? I dont want to spoil our relationship.
2007-03-23 12:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i do he might be pissed of or go along with it.
2007-03-23 12:55:28 · update #1
First question is.. how old are the two of you? If you are older than 12 or so... run for the hills!
Anyone older than that who says 'females do nasty things' is not someone you want to get involved with. If he's not a little boy but a grown man who has some strange hangup about kissing and women, don't waste your time with him.
2007-03-23 12:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by endorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont know what his saying, he just probably just say that, because you guys are new couple, but give it a month he will do the same thing to you, i'l bet that. Sometimes, we have some stuff in our mind that we think we cant do or dont want to do, but if you meet the right person. No matter what your previous thoughts said you will not care. So just leave him alone, dont kiss him... Wait for the romantic time, go somewhere, play video games, anything that will end up to passion or intimacy.
Enjoy i hope this answer help you.
2007-03-23 20:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Eunice M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to kiss you, he might be unsure of his feelings about you. It's been fun but it's only been three weeks. Let him make all the moves - let him take some responsibility for showing his feelings, for God's sake. If you tell yourself you have to be the aggressive one, he never really has to admit that he likes you - only that you like him - a LOT!
2007-03-31 16:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run as fast as you can as far away as you can. Any guy who won't kiss you on the lips doesn't care about you. Kissing is a sign of affection.
2007-03-23 19:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in a relationship is the most and best thing ever happens to any one, sharing every thing and of cours each other, the guy your with does seem to have problems but you can push him about it and prob push him away your you can be patient and just very slowly help him come around
2007-03-31 19:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by chippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should just wait a few more weeks and just wait foro the most amazing kiss...i am still waitingn for my kiss! Then if the wiat is begining to be to ling justa ask him why he isnt kissing you...you just be straight up honest with him
2007-03-23 19:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by celine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well tell him that your lips have never done any of that "nasty stuff" and that your lips have never touched anyone in no place other that the head/face area
2007-03-23 19:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by jenuine_idiot_227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him (CASUALLY!!) how long he'd wait to actually kiss a girlfriend.
If he says never, don't do it.
If he says I don't know, I would wait a little bit.
If he says three-four weeks, do it.
2007-03-23 19:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by xxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do things to make him crazy for you and want you madly, and make out that you will not kiss him..... he will be desperate for you and want to kiss you.
2007-03-31 13:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. You're in a going nowhere relationship. lol.
2007-03-31 19:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋