Assume that avoiding the person or telling them to go away is not an option. Neither is hurting them in any way, physical or emotional.
2007-03-23 12:51:14 · 8 answers · asked by imjustasteph 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
We're talking about a family member and 2-3 days of it.
2007-03-23 13:08:37 · update #1
Find someone else to talk to or find a way to get out of there (fake headaches work best). If all else fails, just smile a lot and look distracted. If they ask what's up just say you have some personal issues and really don't feel like socializing.
2007-03-23 12:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I assume suicide is not a viable response??lol I usually turn my attention to another person in the setting or claim that I've got a head cold or allergies that keep my ears continually "stopped up" so they have to repeat themselves over and over to get my response, or I act like I'm sick and go to bed (assuming you don't have to sleep with this person). I still think avoidance of the person is your best defense but it sounds like this isn't an option for you either. Good luck.
2007-03-24 00:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tried to take your suggestion(avoiding is not an option) and think about an answer. there is nothing that will work is my opinion short of staying away. I had a similar situation and fought it for 2 years. finally got away and it was so great. I still kick myself for not getting away sooner. I assume we are not talking about a marriage. that would be an even bigger problem. if its a work situation i would still leave. its not worth it. it will only get worse.
2007-03-23 20:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by expertless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this experience with a pre in-law who became an out-law. Whenever I see her I have the time of my life. I ignore her, and focus my attention on all the other people in the room that I have fun with. If all else fails, just leave. Say you have prior engagements.
I hopes this helps.
2007-03-23 20:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by MYRI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like someone is going to visit the in-laws. I suggest minimizing your exposure to the person you find toxic. Take long walks, or naps!
2007-03-23 21:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that experience for 18 years. I learned to ignore that person as much as possible. I don't know if I'll ever heal from those scars.
2007-03-23 20:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Flop Mucket 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE A CHOICE?! I can't think of any situation like that that I would accept!
2007-03-23 20:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by chikadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang it i would take to them and tell them that they are annoying me
2007-03-23 20:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by jenjen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋