Is this the right time to lose my virginity?

Question

Is this the right time to lose my virginity?
I met this girl 6 years ago when I was a freshman in high school who became a good friend of me. This summer I expressed my feelings for he and I was glad when she accepted it. I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for 6 months from since this summer.She is pressuring me to sleep with her, in my mind I want to do it because she looks really good, is mature and I really care about her and admire her but in my heart I feel that I should wait longer. What is the best thing to do?

Answer 1

If you don't want to do that so soon, then don't. She may be pressuring you, but it's all your choice. Don't let her decide for you, and if she really cares about you, she'll understand and will wait until you're ready. Also, if you have to ask about being ready, maybe you should rethink this thoroughly. Just don't let anyone force you to do anything you aren't ready for.

Answer 2

You should follow your heart and let no-one pressure you into doing something you don't want to or are not sure about. You should wait until you know in your heart you are with the right person and its the right time.. At least this way even if the relationship does not work out in the end you will not regret having lost your virginity to that person.... Only you will know when the time is right. If you're ready for it, sex can be a wonderful experience. But it is also serious business. It means dealing with many new and complicated feelings. And it means taking responsibility for your own health—and the health of your partner

Answer 3

six months is nothing and if shes pressuring you all she wants is to brag about it . If she loves you she will wait until the time is right. This is very sacred something that should be on hold for your wife this is your wife's job. your virginity is very special and you should be careful who you chose for such a purity intimacy .This is something you will never get back ones it's lost. People should be special to share this with someone who you would never regret because it's an ugly feeling to do it with some one who you think is special for the moment but finding out it wasn't so. Just wait it really pays off to make the right choice there's never regrets when you make the right choices. And who cares what other people might think or what she would go around saying it's your body and should be respected. I know you would like to experience this special moment but really follow your inner feelings and hold on until you know that you know without any doubt that the person is special enough to stay with for the rest of your life. Yes you might no her for some time now but you just started this relationship and is to soon to tell where this might go. She accepted you but I think any body would accept a virgin, who wouldn't? think carefully this are your feelings that are in the line you expressed your feelings and it's been six mon. it's really hard to tell. how does she really feel about you? She might just be thrilled to know shes dating a virgin every body brags to be the first. Take it slow so what if she has a hot body what you have is even better. Would you want something that looks good or something that's priceless and one of a kind?
Is she a virgin her self? Ask who was her first then ask if she regrets it the response will shock you that's exactly what you don't want to happen. To me she ain't a virgin and if she gave it up she should not pressure you at all that's exactly how they did it to her it all sounds to familiar. If she does not stop then kindly say to respect and that you don't like the pressure if you love me you understand you might of been ready when you experienced it but I'm not ready yet. A virgin should be with a virgin that's the best thing that can happen.
Love is patient Love is kind if she don't believe so then meet other girls who do. Good luck and think smart.

Answer 4

If you feel that you're not ready to, then don't. If she respects and cares about you as much as you do for her, she won't pressure you. I can tell you from past experiences that if you sleep with someone when you don't feel you are ready, it will cause major problems. I dated a girl for 2 years before we slept together (and we both agreed that we made a mistake and shouldn't have done it), and we broke up about 2 months afterward. At this point we aren't speaking. We're not on bad terms, but we're not close at all. And that hurts. My advice is to follow your heart. You don't want to make a rash decision and ruin the relationship.

Answer 5

If you think you should wait, WAIT! Stick with your gut feeling. If this girl is pressuring you or rushing you, even though you really like her, tell her that. Tell her how you feel. Then you two will be able to work it out and you will be able to comprimise about the When, Where, and Why's. Dont be pressured because this girl is beautiful and mature.

Answer 6

wow i have alot of respect for you. about 20 years old and still a virgin (realy i do). My dad has always told me the time to have an active sex life is between 20 and 24. trust me, hes a vagina surgeon (well, technically a gynecologic oncologist) and hes seen the very worst effects of sex. As long as you are responsible and use protection i think its fine. Good luck and have fun!

Answer 7

You'll know when you are ready.If she cares about you she shouldnt pressure you.I wish more guys were like you, nearly every guy I ever went out with was ready to get busy pretty much right away (not that I went along with many of them.)

Answer 8

Tell her to wait until youre married.If she isnt willing to do this, then she isnt the right one for you because she is putting sex BEFORE a committment to you and if she gets pregnant then what?Abortion?Maybe a break up and youre stuck paying child support and visiting your child?Propose to her, if youre ready to have sex then you should both be able to support yourselves financially, keep a place to live, a car job etc and be married.If you cant do all that and arent ready for marriage, dont play with sex.

Answer 9

I say tell her the truth be upfront and tell her you are very attracted to her but you think you want to wait to have sex.I admire you for not rushing in and taking advantage of her.

Answer 10

well tell her how u feel because she may think u don't like her or that u just don't want to touch her and such so tell her how u feel and that u want it to be special and that ur waiting for the right time to express ur love and true feelings to her