Okay, Well, My friend wants her boyfriend to break up with her.
but she doesnt want to hurt his feelings.
shes already tried telling him straight forward, & he got REALLLY upset,
so, think of a way, that she can get him to dump her, because she doesnt care if her heart gets broken, but she just wants to break up..
k,laterbaby.
2007-03-23 12:47:24 · 24 answers · asked by lemscheerhottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So she decided not to break it off cause he got really upset?
Lord help him if this is the only trial in life he ever has to go through.
Tell her to be frank with him. Tell her to tell him that she no longer wants to be his gf and its over. Period.
Dont beat around the bush about it. Being honest will be the easiest in the long run.
Tell her to just do it. He will be fine in a few days.
2007-03-23 12:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great that she tried to be straight with him, and that is actually what she needs to do. Have her take mutual guy friend with her when she talks to him again. That way, the friend can stay with him and help him get through it. She should be upfront and tell him that it is just time for it to end. Get straight to the point and then LEAVE. Your mutual friend should stay and talk it out with him, not your friend. After that, no phone calls, no texting, no email.... only a clean break will work. Good luck!
2007-03-23 12:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by teaching7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is actually better for her to let him know that she has no feelings for him anymore. The thing is that he needs to understand that this relationship has no future and if he just is too stubborn then you or another girl friend could help her out pretending that you want to go on a date with him u dont need to kiss or anything, just let him be visible i dont know be on public hold his hand or let him hug you, then she will walk up to u guys and tell him that she did not expect this from any of u, and vuala the relationship is over, he might beg her for a while but then he will get tired. believe me and then he will leave her alone.
2007-03-23 12:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by lizeth g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should just tell him straight forward that it is over. If it is really over she will not care that he gets so upset. Just plain tell him it is over and if that doesn't work the first couple of times she should just start seeing other people or just not hang out with him anymore.
2007-03-23 12:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Alex P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that your girlfriend told her boyfriend that she would stay with him because he got really upset? Is she afraid to leave him? Otherwise, I don't understand why she won't leave him regardless of how upset he gets. If this is the case, he will not let her go. She needs to be careful.
2007-03-23 12:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seth: Easy answer. Watch How to lose a guy in 10 days. It has all you need to know for you or your friend.
Damon: Your friend needs to do it herself!!! And shes a little ***** for not getting her heart broken its like she just wants a boyfriends to kiss or something.
2007-03-23 12:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by guitarist101damon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "How to lose a guy in 10 days" it spells everything out. It would give you the best ways to get him out of her hair!
2007-03-23 12:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should flirt with other guys and not spend time with him.....
sooner or later he's going to get the picture if that doesnt hurt she should just break up with him....it might hurt him but its better than being with some one you dont want to be with.....
hope i helped babe.....
<3
2007-03-23 12:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by Skannk<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs just to stop communicating with him. Cut all ties. He will get the message. So what if he gets upset, life goes on.
2007-03-23 12:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to break up , then she should do it. Why do something stupid to tick him off or humiliate him so that he will break up with her. Makes no sense, either way he is going to get hurt.
2007-03-23 12:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋