I asked this question a minute ago... but I got more relationship advice than anything....
my girlfriend cheated with some dude... (i know they were making out, but i think more happened)
I still feel like she might be lying to me about what happened.
should I have her call this guy on speakerphone and ask him what happened between them ?????????
(she was drunk) ... (he might have been drunk too...)
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2007-03-23 12:42:43 · 23 answers · asked by Nat T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldn't. Just remember this, your gf can't be trusted. People tend to act on what they feel more when they're drunk, versus when you are sober.... Do you really want to have to worry about her every time she drinks??
2007-03-23 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not drunk there is no excuse to cheat and hell ya call his *** better yet why don't the both of you just go talk to the dude and see what's up with these two and further more why would you stay with someone who is going to disrespect you like that and then to sit and lie about it dam that's too much but............
I'm not saying dump her I'm just saying that you deserve better than that, that's all.
Chow.
2007-03-23 12:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very knowledgable of being cheated on unfortunatly. How long ago was this ? If she thinks you two are over this and you continue to bring it up after a long time then she will probably get pissed of and say you don't trust her and that you can never be the same. Well, the truth is, if someone sheats on you, you don't trust them for a very long time. VERY VERY long time. It depends on how long ago she cheated.
Blessed Be
2007-03-23 12:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jane ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would call and talk to the guy myself. If she calls on speaker he will know something is up and may not say much just not to cause more problems. I would call the guy and tell him that your girl fessed up to everything that happened between them and you just wanted to know if it was all true. I would add extra **** just to give him the opportunity to tell his side. I guarantee you'll get more out of him then from your girl bcuz he will not lie if he thinks you know it all bcuz he will not want to seem like a punk.
2007-03-23 12:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate that people justify that with "i was drunk" you still know wha tyou're doing. get rid of her buddy. as far as the speakerphone thing.....damn.....give it a shot because it'll give you some kind of closure. but, watch the tone in her voice. if she sounds like she's in distress when she calls him he's going to pick up on that and sense something else is her motive and clam up on you guys. and she knows this.
2007-03-23 12:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by A... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was drunk too. Also, he might be a big liar and a troublemaker. I say don't call the guy. Good luck.
2007-03-23 12:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself one question.....Would you ever be able to trust her again?What will you achieve by calling this plank ....once it happens you either forgive her and dont keep bringing it up all the time if she has said sorry then accept it or move on.
2007-03-23 12:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 11:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! That's immature. (And will only cause more issues between you.) You can either believe her and get over it, or you can choose not to believe her and move on. Sounds to me like you don't believe her...don't waste your time by calling this other guy.
2007-03-23 12:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by jluvsb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok think about it.
If she does: then you hear about what they did. Do you feel better now? Hell they'll probably both lie.
If she doesn't: you go on and try to forget about it and find a girl that doesn't drink so much.
2007-03-23 12:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋