What's the best thing to do when going to a club by yourself? How do you scope out the scene without looking weird?
2007-03-23 12:27:53 · 20 answers · asked by Amazing Grace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have done it...
and sweety there nothing better. dress up cute. hit the bar talk to who ever is near you, hit the dance floor, dance alone or with your self. CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY.
There is no shame nena, in going alone.
2007-03-23 12:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk in the front door like you own the place and grab a seat at the bar... Then start casually bs'ing with the people around you.
If anyone asks say you're in town on business, or just moved to the city or something... Lots of women go out alone and that is probably the best explanation I've heard (cause most of the time it's true). Don't tell them you're waiting for a friend or anything like that because you'll look like you're insecure and lying when that person never appears, or even worse that you've been stood up.
2007-03-23 12:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just walk through the door, head held high and knowing that you are the best looking woman there. Find a spot where you can see everything, look approachable and don't waste your time with rif-raft. And by all means be able to afford what you drink, but if you do it right you won't have to pay for a thing. Do not send a drink to a guy. Makes you look like you're buying. You have plenty of time to buy after you get to know him. Happy hunting.
2007-03-23 12:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you arrive sit at the bar. Make a statement like "Im supposed to meet my friend here". That way you dont look desperate. Usually if you sit at the bar someone will start talking to you. Then you should feel little more comfortable. After a few drinks scoping should get easy. By midnight-1am everyone is drunk and everyone will be talking to you.
2007-03-23 12:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings you don't do alone such as clubbing and eating at a "real" restaurant, but if you must look extra fly and head to the bar....hopefully meet some men there and enjoy!
2007-03-23 12:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Superfly21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you own the place. Strut. You have every right to go to a club by yourself, so have fun. Isn't that the point?
2007-03-23 12:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dress up real cute, and you tail the bar. Flirt with a few guys, especially the bar tender. Get your boogie on the dance floor, and don't leave till you get at least 5 numbers.
That sounds like a blast to me!
2007-03-23 12:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done it. I plan to do it again maybe tonight. To be honest, it it kind of cool. You get more "play" when you are buy yourself. I am a female and men by you drinks when you are buy yourself versus when you are out with your girls. It is not weird. Just enjoy yourself.
2007-03-23 12:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by akanay1996 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my bf is aboard and this is what i do start dancing never stop look...act as if u are aving the time of ur life and trust me it works all the time.... someone is bound to come over and tada u are not alone again.....itrs a girls ting
just dont exchange # unleast u are real interested!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 12:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_oreo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but i think you should really take sum1 with you becuz somthing could happen to you adn you really should have sum1 to watch your drinks and make sure nothing happens i really wouldn't recomend going by yourself i could be dangerous
2007-03-23 12:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Kaydi Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋