we been smiling at each other for almost a month but i like her i don't know that she like me or not .it could be just friendly smile but i have to make a move now i think!! so .. i been waiting to ask her out long time ...should i say that to her?? i want to find is she into me or not and how do i do that?
2007-03-23 12:27:10 · 9 answers · asked by shone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you have to think about these basics (some of them may sound a bit harsh.. but that's life)
1. is she out of your league?
2. is she older?
3. are you popular?
4. are you good looking?
well if you're not sure if its a friendly smile or maybe a flirty smile then you should try and become friends with her first. because if you spend more tI'me with her, even if its 'only' as friends, you'll get closer to her. and then when you two are a alone for a moment just kiss her. im a girl myself, and believe me, that's exactly the way every girl ( or nearly every girl) wants to get together with a guy.
2007-03-23 12:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Establish a more-than-just-friends ship. Start by giving her something to play on, like if you are in her class ask her for a pencil or eraser. If she's slightly interested she might play about, teasing you for it. Don't worry, it's not that she doesn't like you. She expects you to play along, so maybe walk off in mock sulk, don't do it too heavily though. She might start to think you are a spaz if you do.
2. Yes, girls like compliments but unless they are desperates they might think you are desperate or making something too ovious. So maybe tell her you like her new hairstyle but then go behind her and mess around with it, spice it up. She'll like your courage to go play about with her hair but make sure she doesnt have dandruff or lice because although you might not be too bothered she will get embarrassed and scared to go near you.
3. Start a ball game (not literally). Be a little far away and look at her, admire her. She'll catch your gaze and look at you. Look away suddenly but keep an eye out for her looking back at you. If she is get up and walk past her, possiibly giving her a little smile as you go. If she isn't then if you play football or basketball you might want a gang of guys ready to shout "Nice one"s or stuff like that. She'll give you a look. Then follow above.
4. Have chats with her, ask her if she has any pets and find out some interesting things. Make sure she knows you inside out as well.
5. Move in closer, be alone and look down. Look up at her eyes, look lost in her world for a second, not spasticated though, and then say "I, em, like you. So...Em..Will you go out with me" While you say this look down, hangdogs are cute. Look up when you say me and smile questioningly.
* Don't come on too full or it'll freak her out.
* Don't treat her like shes desperate, or like she'd do anything for you
* Act like you really think you have to work for her to your friends. They might do some secret hinting.
2007-03-23 12:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by cool&laid-back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can get to know her as a friend, that you like her a lot but you don't want to move too fast and get hurt. that you don't want to break her heart either which is why you want to start out as friends.
2007-03-24 12:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfmanscott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to join you for coffee that way you arent asking her on an official date as such and over coffee you could then progress on to how would she like to go out one night an i personally wouldnt tell all too soon you dont want her freaking out thinking your a stalker do ya x
2007-03-23 12:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go for a coffee then you won't feel daft if she goes you can get a date sorted good luck
2007-03-23 12:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Hi. look, I'm really nervous and I'd like to ask you out on a date.'
'I would really like to spend time with just you for a day.'
'So please, can I take you out on a date'?
How about those honest, simple and straightforward words for you to use.
Good luck.
Sash.
2007-03-23 14:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say ....... hi do u wanna go and get a drink or sometin to eat sum time! good luck
2007-03-23 12:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by nat l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you fancy a movie?
2007-03-23 13:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her for a drink, make her feel special and don't rape her.
2007-03-23 12:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋