well me and my best friend want the same guy and i don't know what to do. He gave both of us his # so there is no clues to who he wants or if he wants ethier of us. She said she wont be mad if i date him but she wants to know if i would be mad if she dated him. To tell truth i would but it is retarted to lose a friend to guy but i really like him. She only says she wont be mad but i know she will be at least a little bit. What in the world do i do. I am so confused and that is the thing i hate most?!?!? Can you help?!?!?!?!
2007-03-23 12:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend said she won't be mad, so if she is really a friend, you should believe her.
Also, ask the guy out, actually, have a nice, long date first to see how it goes.
Then have your friend date him.
The boy will most likely make a decision, other wise, just be friends with the guy, both of you.
2007-03-23 12:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by ladiesman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a guy. Guys will come and go, but friends (usually) stick around for longer. And mean more to you afterwards. I'd say both stay away from him. Don't let him come between you, it'll just turn into a cat fight, and he won't want either of you.
2007-03-23 19:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay that you like the same guy. As I see it what doesn't tear you apart will just strengthen your friendship. If your friend is able to put aside her feelings and tell you that, you should consider her's. Sadly, the best way to handle this is to hope he doesn't like either of you. (Upsetting, huh, but if that happens you'll have a friend to help you through it.)
2007-03-23 19:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy. Is he worth losing a friendship? Whoever ends up with him, odds are you wont be with him forever but your best friend will be with you forever.
2007-03-23 19:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which do you want more a good friend or a boyfriend? This is something you need to answer for yourself.
2007-03-23 19:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Monell K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy to ask you and your best friend q's about him. whoever knows more about him gets to go out with him.
2007-03-23 19:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kassie Buchanan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why dont you both do him he would probably like that
2007-03-23 19:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by DIRKDIGGLER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋