Im 16 years old and this girl, who is 13 years old, wants to get into a relationship with me. When I told her that I don't want to do that, she started crying. I wanted her to stop so i told her i'd think about it over the weekend. One side of me tells me that I should and there isn't really any harm in doing so, but the other side of me tells me that I shouldn't because shes way younger then me. For example, if I took her to the movies or w/e people would probably ask, " Is that your brother?" or w/e. I just don't know what do to. And it would be helpful to get an outside opinion on this.
2007-03-23 12:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by bif_the_duck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya, that probally wouldnt be the smartest idea. chances are, if shes crying over u saying no, she's not mature enough to be going out with. also dont feel forced into doing something u dont wanna do. trust me if shes worth knowing, shes better kept as a friend, not the junior high slut.
i really hope this helps
lol muchoes luves!
2007-03-23 17:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 if shes crying about that shes not ready for dating.
#2 if she has talked to her parents what do they think?
#3 ditto for your parents.
#4 if you think you like her well enough tell her that you think you should both wait a bit and if you both feel the same way in a couple months then maybe?
#5 my parents met when my mom was 14 and my dad was 20. They have been married 41 years so anything is possible.
2007-03-23 12:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by stefani h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off, in most states you are 16 and can be considered a child molester bc she is 13 which is not legal to make her own decision. If if she has any type of relationship or sex with you and it's consensual you will be the one in trouble. Don't do it until your older.
2007-03-23 12:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sharan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like her, than go for it, but if your not rele feeling it, then just tell her thats how you feel. she'll get over you. you sound like a nice person, but honestly i could never imagine someone 13 (like me) wanting to go out with a 16 your old. especially since my brother is 17.
2007-03-23 12:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 yrs. old girl + 16 yr. old guy = embarassment in public
2007-03-23 12:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by cool&laid-back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! She is not emotionally ready. You are in different places in life. Bad idea and it will lead to drama.
2007-03-23 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by ktzlilg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure that is cool me and my bf are 2 years apart
2007-03-23 12:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away...she is too imature (already crying?) about not seeing you?
2007-03-23 12:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO.
way to young.
2007-03-23 12:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋