My boyfriend is still friends with his ex's!?

Question

Am I being too jealous? I know he loves me and will never leave me for anyone else. He is one of those people that others like to confide in, but it really bothers me. It's not just one ex either.

Not one of my ex's are trying to be "just friends" with me - not one.

Answer 1

I have the same situation.
2 of my boyfriends ex-girlfriends are calling him constantly, and wants to meet for coffee and just chat. I know that the girls miss him, and wants him back. But fortunatly my boyfriend doesn't want the same, and I trust him.
I understand that u feel jealousy, I felt it too, but now I feel secure with myself and with my boyfriend. And I trust him.
And if he would be stupid enough to cheat on me, then it's simply bye-bye to him!
Good luck girlfriend! Hope everything works out well, and I bet it will ;)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You really shouldn't be spending too much time worrying about it. If you do, you'll come off as being jealous, insecure, and annoying to him.

If you trust him, you should trust him. There's really no other way to put it. The only time you should start to worry and become jealous is if he becomes secretive about his hanging out/talking with them or if you find out that he's been putting you on the back burner for them (for example, both you and one of his ex-s asked to hang out on the same day and he chose them, etc.)

Maybe none of your ex-s want to be just friends with you because your relationship ended on a bad note. Maybe some of them still liked you but didn't want to risk old feelings by being around you. There are lots of reasons to every side of this situation.

Take a deep breath and relax.

Answer 4

Just because there friends, doesn't mean there going back, I talk to my x-GF

Answer 5

you just need to trust him or your going to lose a good one