How do you break up with a jerk?

Question

Before we went out, he was nice and everything. But after the first week, he turned into a jerk. He keeps on complaining about my personal appearance when there is absolutely nothing wrong. His favorite thing to complain about is my hair. A single strand gets away from a pony tail and he bitches about it all day long. I was ill today and my hair was out and he kept on saying that I looked like Whitney Houston and the dress I was wearing looked like a maid's dress... even though everyone else thought that I looked cute today.

I won't see him until Monday... should I just send him an email (he doesn't have a computer so he will have to get the email on Monday) or break up on phone (I tend to forget what I have to say on phone though)? Give me something to say. I want revenge,

Answer 1

Say " I am done with you ******," then you walk away, do it in person.

Answer 2

Does he have a cell phone? Wait until he tries to call you and respond with a text message along the lines of "Your really annoying and I'm tired of faking like I like you--" Don't give too many details, it will eat him up...trust me, it sounds like he has a bit of low self esteem and he will try to get under your skin but the more you ignore him (rolling your eyes and ignoring him, going about your life as though you are better off without him) it will be the BEST revenge--

Answer 3

I would tell him or e-mail him and just tell him you are sick and tired of the insults and that it is over and you are too good for him. He is not worthy of you! Tell him that other women may tolerate that ABUSE but not you! It is easier to e-mail because you can get all of your thoughts out without being interrupted. In addition, you will really mess up his Monday, which he deserves! You deserve a better guy so just tell this jerk to go jump off a bridge.

Answer 4

ok, something like this doesn't sound like something you would forget to say on the phone. Say Hey you were a really big jerk to me today and you have been since after the first week we've been together so either straiten up or it's over!
(unless you would like to end it right there you just simply say- so it's over between us- this is after you told him what i said before!)

Answer 5

I don't blame you for feeling that way. In a way, you could get revenge and help him at the same time by telling him the truth and telling him to get lost and grow up so that he can find real love some day.

Answer 6

First of all, anyone who is as hateful as that dude is you should not hang around with. If I were in your shoes I would just be straight forward and tell him that he needs to get his act together or that we just see other people. Don't be scared or hestitant about this type of stuff. Learn to be real and come out with your true feelings.

Answer 7

If I were you, I would right down all the things he makes you feel, so you won't forget. Then tell him those things and put all your feelings of hatred and fury etc. but tell him in private so you nor him will be embarrassed...

Answer 8

Get it done ASAP so you stop thinking about this idiot. Don't waste time with jerks when there are plenty of good guys who will treat you well.

Answer 9

Hey guess what i finally hope my eyes and i notice that this is not going to work out. But take care ok...

Answer 10

Tell him hes a jerk.
And a personal message from me "you a** hole"
have a nice life

Answer 11

no, say it to his face. tell him that hes being a real ****** and you cannot stay with him. if he keeps on pursuing you, go with the dog crap or the lipstick idea....