Huh, this girl wants to talk about what ain't fair?!!!?

Question

First, understand this is a girl I'm in love with commenting to a friend of hers on myspace who's boyfriend broke up with her. This came off a blog:
"well, i think everything you said in that was a 100% true! there is no perfect relationship. but you have to remember that your not the only one in the relationship the girl always puts 110% into their relationships and most boys dont. its not fare to us that we get hurt and they act as if everything is just great! we have to learn to only put in as much as we get. he should have called to talk about, if he really cared. so i think you should not worry about it, cause he needs to be the one to make the next move, if there is one."
All I did to the girl in the above comment was love her. That's why I didn't try that hard to go out with her since she didn't like me back. That's why I was afraid when she said she was falling in love with someone else, I told a friend, and just for her to find out and get mad at me and not talk to me for

11 months. I've said sorry and meant it just for her to tell me she never wants to talk to me again over something so stupid. Actually, even better, she said there's no reason why she doesn't want to talk to me. I try to be nice to her and be her friend after almost a year of not talking because I miss her and I want her back, but she wants to ignore me like I ain't no-damn-body! That's what's not fair. She says it not fair to them when they get hurt and apparently we act like everything is just great. I say it's not fair to me when I get hurt and when I try to talk to her I'm just a brick wall or a doormat. I tried to talk to her but she didn't look at me or utter a word to me. She wants to say guys act like everything is just great, but she don't want to fix anything either. I'm the one trying to be civil at least but she won't even say hi to me anymore. She says he should have talked the problems out, and when I talk the problems out she says she don't want to talk to me anymore

for no reason.

Note: I started out liking her when she said she liked me, then she said she didn't like me and I still liked her as I got to know her, then eventually I saw everything I'd been looking for in her and I fell in love. Never again. That's why the #1 rule is never fall in love.

Answer 1

dont let one girl mess up love for you she may not like you at this time but you need to find real love not some chick that that is going to break you heart

Answer 2

dude she's not worth it if she's treating u like that chicks just show their emotion where as most guys don't i'll make this short! u sound like a cool guy and i think u can do alot better and u don't deserve that kinda ....! she also sounds very childish with the way she's going about all of this!

Answer 3

u remind me so much of this pathetic kid i know named justin! girls are alot deeper than u will ever know, there was probably some underlying reason why she got mad at u! and she won't ever tell u! i say forget about her and move on!

oh and i definitely agree with sparky!

Answer 4

get to the point and quit dating feminists.

Answer 5

amen, it hurts like hell, if they broke your heart