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See I like this guy and i've never had the guts to go and talk to him or anything and he's really shy too which doesn't help. He knows I like him but and everyone tells him that. A couple of times I got my friends to talk to him 4 me. But just the other day I stuffed up big time! I wrote my number down on a bit of paper and got my friends to give it to him. And now everyone's telling me that I have to talk to him. I already know this but how? Should I ring him up and apologise for my stupidity and tell him how sorry I am for being such a dh?

2007-03-23 12:06:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

I think youd both be better off if you left your friends out of this.
It may be making things harder for this shy guy.
Instead just ask him to go with you somewhere where you can talk to him alone. Like out for a soda somewhere where you wont be running into people you know. Shy people dont like crowds but one on one they do better.

2007-03-23 12:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0 0

Where are you from...we say "stuffed up" in South Africa but I've never heard it in America! As for the question, yes call him and make it casual, if he is not responsive leave him alone he's probably not interested. However, if he is, let HIM chase YOU!

2007-03-23 19:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lal 4 · 0 0

If ya like the guy then tell him ..Don't be playing little girl games....shy so what!!! ya going to be shy forever??? No your not !dont let a possible freindship go by the way side ...this could be a real good thing!!!!

2007-03-23 19:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by huckleberrie 2 · 0 0

You need to do your own talking and flirting. I think I would forget the mistake of sending the phone number to him. If he is interested, he will let you know. I see no reason to think that you have to talk to him. Make your own decisions.

2007-03-23 19:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0 0

call him and tell him... is it true that my friends gave you my number. If he says yes then just talk for a couple of min. Then at the end say "Oh, since you have my number now, kepp it!" and hang up! you want him to WANT YOU and to wounder!!
GOOD LUCK!!

=)

2007-03-23 19:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by badgirlanddevil 2 · 0 0

Actually if you gave him your number, doesn't that mean he will call you if he's interested? That's my understanding. However, it still would be okay if you talked to him in the meantime.

2007-03-23 19:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0 0

how do you know you've stuffed up, he might ring you yet, give him a few days then if he doesn't ring you then ring or text him and ask him out

2007-03-23 19:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0 0

two steps forward, 1 step back, you took the 2 forward steps , now lay back for one and see what happens.

2007-03-23 20:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

call him but not for that reason!

just say im sorry i didnt talk to you and i was wondering if we could talk now

something like that....

question do you know if he likes you?

2007-03-23 19:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 0 0

In a hundred years it won't matter. Do it. You regret the things you don't do more so than the things you do.

2007-03-23 19:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by liquidobsidean 1 · 0 0

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