i have a boyfriend but we dont get to talk as much as we used to. i call his house one of his brother may answer the phone and tell me that he is not home or whatever and then he say that he is cheating on me. i call again and his other brother answer the phone and tell me that he's busy and he call me later, and ill ask him if he cheating on me and he say no, and then when i do get to talk to him my boyfriend tell me no. but any ways i need to know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
2007-03-23 11:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a new boyfreind that will take any time to talk to you
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2007-03-23 11:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by lowerthanaslave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why his brother always answering the phone? I don't know if they're playing with your mind or if your boyfriend trying to avoid you. It's good to be in a relationship, but give each other space. Maybe your boyfriend wants some time to himself. You can ask him if he's cheating until you're blue in the face, but boys lie...try investigating his room for clues. Like lady underwear, notes, smell of perfume, condoms, etc...
2007-03-23 19:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by i'M S0 FLY ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you suspect he is cheating on you, there is a good possibility that he is, or it is your insecurity, but normal when he is tripping off you, and he answering his phone, and there are always excuses, then you know something is up, besides, it's in their nature, and it's in mamma's nature to beat it out of him lol
And number one if he told you he was cheating he wasn't playin, he was trying to get a reaction out of you, and 3. When he has other people answering for him? Then there is a chance he doesn't really wanna have anything to do with you. thats real, but like I said, mamma knows best lol
2007-03-23 18:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL the signs of cheating are there. As women we have the gift, smile. Learn to develop and trust that little voice on the inside. Believe in yourself, not what someone else tells you.
2007-03-23 18:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brothers tease each other about that sort of thing a lot. He's probably just been busy lately. Don't sweat it, but keep an eye out!
2007-03-23 18:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by julie™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and quite playing little stupid games.If ya think hes cheating he might as well be cuz honey it's already in your head ....Now grow up and get on with more important things....sounds to me that it's a bad relationship in the first place.
2007-03-23 18:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by huckleberrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all is there any reason for him to be cheatin on you.. ?? is there sumthing about you that he doesn't like... or do you give him a strong enough reason so he could cheat on you?? have you thought about the possibility of his brother liking you and wants to break yall up.. thats relly a possibility cause it happends tell your boyfriend what his brother told you... then see what he says.. because its no longer about if he's cheatin on you or not.. its wether you trust him or not..
2007-03-23 18:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't be spending as much time with you than he usualy is. If you ask him how his day is he won't say much because he's afraid he will blirt out something about what him snd the girl he's cheating on.
2007-03-23 18:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by mersadie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send one of your friends out to hit on him then hid some where so you can confrunt him if he take the bate...Make sure it is a good friend though you dont want your friend ending up with him...
2007-03-23 18:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will lie if he is and you wont know...go by your gut feeling and you will get your answer but i think you need to calm down first.good luck.
2007-03-23 18:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woow.. he prolly is gettin bored..needs space.. if he has a myspace check it out cauz they can be so obvious with it some times..i hope he not thougjh..good luck
2007-03-23 18:58:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋