Tom went to Canada and met this married woman Lisa during his holiday. They got on well, started to like each other. Tom came back home and they started to text and email and it turned out to be a love affair.They both said they love each other. Lisa's marriage was an unhappy one and she originally told Tom she wants to leave her husband. Recently Lisa came over to see Tom in England. Surprisingly she told her husband about Tom and she said to him that she will be sleeping with Tom too!! Plus she gave him Toms telephone number and address in case he wanted to contact Lisa while she was in England. Tom did not like the idea but didnt say anything as he loved Lisa very much. Lisa said she did that in order to get her husbands attention..Lisa came over ,spent time with Tom They had sex too. Tom was so much in love with her. But she went back to Canada and she is trying to get back with her husband. But still says to Tom she loves him too and there is a chance for them to get together.
2007-03-23 11:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Delboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i feel you need to leave her to sort herself out and for her to know just what she wants from love in life.
2007-03-23 11:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I met a woman from Leeds. She had an online romance with a man in Canada. They said they loved each other etc. The man said he wanted to leave his wife and children to be with her!!!!!! oooopppps! So after a couple of months she cathches a plane to Canada and he tells his wife he is going to go fishing for two weeks in a log cabin in the wilderness. So they meet up and spend every day canooing, swimming in the lake and humping each other senseless. They discuss his divorce and where they will get married. The two weeks is up and he drives her hundreds of miles to a hotel. Leaves her there to tell his wife he is leaving her and that he is going to spend his life with his lover and they are to marry. The lady sits in the hotel for a few days and the man comes back and says he is sorry he cannot leave his wife AND HIS CHILDREN. He then says goodbye to the lady and goes back to his wife. The lady eventually returns to the UK and is quite upset as she really fell for this man and believed they would marry and live in Canada. A few weeks after she got back she started to receive texts from him but basically told him to get lost. That is what your friend should do. I think it is some kind of sick game some people play to have sex with someone in another country. A fantasy. When they have had it reality hits and they back out. This woman has used your friend and there is no future in this relationship. Sorry but you did ask. It is only fairy stories and Hollywood films where this has a happy ending.
2007-03-23 19:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that Tom has been used by some one that does not know what she really wants.
2007-03-23 19:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by alec A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to ask!!! Dump her, he is clearly being used. Husband sounds like a complete doormat. Take him out and about so he can meet someone special, he'll soon forget her and realise how daft he's been.
2007-03-23 18:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea to play with married women.
Tom could find a highly suitable unmarried lady.
2007-03-23 19:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on and let her know or she will keep pulling your strings when ever she feels fit and if she was serious about trying to make her marriage work she would not be encouraging you to wait.
2007-03-23 20:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by june july 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey she used him to make the hubby jealous and think about it how many other guys did she do this on and her and her hubby could be having a open relationship and he could be doing it with other women
2007-03-23 18:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget her. What future is there with a person like that?
2007-03-23 19:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by gecko1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should move on with his life... does he know she maybe used him? i don't think she just loves one guy... Tom might be just ONE of them that she said that she loves him...........
2007-03-23 18:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should forget about her because she is a whore. when you really love someone you dont let him/her go!
2007-03-23 18:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋