Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 2 months, and i know he wants to kiss me. I want to kiss him too, but i am like to shy. This is my first kiss, and i think it is his too.
2007-03-23 11:43:40 · 12 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or,
instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're
not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you
remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands
on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet.
Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper
his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!
***How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
****French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little... for details!
~Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
*****Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to
practice. Have fun!
Trust me i went through the same thing u are so just relax, everything should just come naturally!
If u ever need anything else email @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-23 11:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Set the mood. Be somewhere PRIVATE. Say how much you care about him. He will do the same. Then look into his eyes (corny...but it'll work) and wait for a few seconds. Smile a little to let him know you're up for the kiss. If he doesn't make a move, touch his face gently or play with his hair and then slowly move in and GENTLY start kissing him. DON'T go too hard. My first was terrible. More like a sexual assault then a kiss. I think it'll be amazing, so enjoy!
2007-03-23 12:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by libbyocto14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so we all get our first kisses and with that comes the jitters but its OK its normal
so i think it is about time you kiss him lol i mean he is your boyfriend so here is what you do
*do to a quiet place and get to talking and then when he looks at you smile at him and then look at his lips thats a red flag for him
but if he doesn't pick up on it or he is to scared then look in his eyes and all you have to do is take his chin in your hand and slowly pull it close to you and at the same time slowly move in for the kiss but go slow and before you kiss him look him in the eyes to make sure he wants to kiss you and then just give him a peck on the lips start off slow and WHATEVER YOU DO DONT FRENCH KISS HIM FOR A WHILE IT WILL SUCK BAD IF YOU ARENT COMFORTABLE WITH HIM
you can email me if you wanna lol i have kissed tons of people and i have had tons of first kisses so email me you want k chick good luck
2007-03-23 11:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly simply calm down, you cannot fairly do something mistaken, simply make certain you could have recent breath, seem into his eyes and lean in. Here's a few matters I've learned by way of kissing: -GO SLOW to begin, you are much less prone to believe clumsy and awkward in the event you begin with smooth smooth kisses -USE YOUR HANDS now not within the kiss straight surely, however contact him(now not his dick immediately). Start via resting your hand at the again of his neck/head, and in the event you get extra into it lightly tug on his hair(men move wild). You would additionally leisure a hand on his shoulder or thigh if it makes you extra cozy. -SMILE at him while you pull aside and seem into his eyes Good good fortune, you are going to be excellent xx I'm consistently pleased to support in the event you wish to speak to me
2016-09-05 13:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it.. a first kisss is nothing but a show of an affection its a one minute thing that after seems like nuttin .. so just go wit the flow and i say go for it... cause im sorry but 4 months and no kiss.. seems like forever how did you do that .. dayumm he must relly like you..GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-23 11:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So then what is your question? Just go in for it you pansy. Start with a peck and then just let is flow. Are you "like too shy" or in fact too shy?
2007-03-23 11:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by MayerDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say to go for it, but dont force it, it will come naturally, you will know when to do it, it will be the perfect moment and the perfect setting, hopefully this helps you, unless im a hopeless romantic, then youre screwed.
2007-03-23 12:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by thespian07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl!!! Congratualtions!! The best of luck!!! =D
2007-03-23 11:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm kiss him duhh
2007-03-23 11:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by catcher paintballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for it
2007-03-23 11:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋