First, understand this is a girl I'm in love with commenting to a friend of hers on myspace who's boyfriend broke up with her. This came off a blog:
"well, i think everything you said in that was a 100% true! there is no perfect relationship. but you have to remember that your not the only one in the relationship the girl always puts 110% into their relationships and most boys dont. its not fare to us that we get hurt and they act as if everything is just great! we have to learn to only put in as much as we get. he should have called to talk about, if he really cared. so i think you should not worry about it, cause he needs to be the one to make the next move, if there is one."
All I did to the girl in the above comment was love her. That's why I didn't try that hard to go out with her. That's why I was afraid when she said she was falling in love with someone else, I told a friend, and just for her to find out and get mad at me and not talk to me for 11 months. I've said sorry
2007-03-23 11:32:57 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and meant it just for her to tell me she never wants to talk to me again over something so stupid. Actually, even better, she said there's no reason why she doesn't want to talk to me. I try to be nice to her and be her friend after almost a year of not talking because I miss her and I want her back, but she wants to ignore me like I ain't no-damn-body! That's what's not fair. She says it not fair to them when they get hurt and apparently we act like everything is just great. I say it's not fair to me when I get hurt and when I try to talk to her I'm just a brick wall or a doormat. I tried to talk to her but she didn't look at me or utter a word to me. She wants to say guys act like everything is just great, but she don't want to fix anything either. I'm the one trying to be civil at least but she won't even say hi to me anymore. She says he should have talked the problems out, and when I talk the problems out she says she don't want to talk to me anymore for no reason.
2007-03-23 11:35:22 · update #1
That's what I said, I've told her I want to be her friend again but she never looked at me or said anything to me. She kept her back turned to me and talked to everybody else that came around her.
2007-03-23 11:45:03 · update #2
it sounds like she's been in a bad relationship. she's saying bad things about guys because she's most likely had one do this to her, or has seen situations like this before. but in truth, guys sometimes throw themselves into the relationship instead of the girl.
Like your situation, you just loved her, and she didn't care, or that wasn't enough for her. my idea is to just move on, she doesnt seem worthy or your love.
2007-03-23 11:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough he-said-she-said. You're the guy, so be quiet. Only chicks should talk so much. Girls don't make any sense, and waiting for it is a waste of time. Tell her you want her, and get it off your chest. Either she wants to be with you, or she doesn't. Stop making your own drama by telling everybody how you feel. Men don't do that.
2007-03-23 18:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? leave the girls and step up to the ladies. That's really immature
2007-03-23 18:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, you believe everything averybody says. be more ana-
litic about everything is around you.
2007-03-23 18:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Julian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋