ok i met this amazing girl about 2 months ago, i kissed her and she kissed me and everything but she has a b.f, everytime i called her after she could never hang out, now recently i saw her and told her that i dont know her much but she is the perfect girl for me, i told her that, and wrote her a poem, yesterday after we talked she said she doesnt know what to say/do, she has been with her b/f on and off, and she doesnt know to end it or not, on the way back, she told me id meet a better girl and forget about her, and itold her that no other girl is better than her. idk what to do now what should i do?
2007-03-23 11:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by amiconealex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just really cant get over her,i want to do anything to be with her
2007-03-23 11:35:59 · update #1
she just texted me saying that she bought me a shirt
2007-03-23 11:37:51 · update #2
When people tell us who they are, what they want, we need to listen. She would never have told you to find another girl if she didn't mean it. Stop pursuing her and thinking of her now before it gets more painful.
2007-03-23 11:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by storm_in_teacup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately not all things work out. She let you down easily. You already know the situation; she has a boyfriend.
The one thing is that you do not want a woman that has no control over herself. Just imagine, you are dating her and she smooches with another guy or worse.
There will be better women who respect their partners. You will find a girl who will have the decency to end a relationship before engaging in another.
Best wishes
2007-03-23 18:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she sounds a little hestitant because YOU sound hesitant. I'm not a girl, but I can imagine most girls want a guy that is going to step up and be a bold leader. I encourage you to pursue her if you think she is the one for you, but you have to decide that first. Think about the perfect girl for you, then ask yourself if that girl is currently in your life, or you still haven't met her. If she isn't the one for you, then just tell her you made a mistake, appologize , and do something for her to show you still want to be friends. If you think she's the one, then what are you waiting for...tell her how you feel! Regardless of her reaction don't take it personally. Just be yourself and be bold...you can do it! Good luck :D
2007-03-23 18:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is the person who has a decision to make since she has a boyfriend. Even though you think she is the girl for you, you need to ask yourself about fairness on her part. If she is dating while still involved with someone else, wouldn't she be likely to do the same thing to you when someone else comes along. I would forget this situation and make friends with other girls and I am sure you will find a nice honest lady. Good luck.
2007-03-23 18:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she really doesn't like you but she doesn't wan tyou to feel bad because if she really liked you then why wouldn't she brake up with her boyfriend what a hoe she probably kissed yoy because she was mad at her boyfriend and she thought kissing you would make it better move on and stop sweating her like that it's plenty of girls out her get it together
2007-03-23 18:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by diamond j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you kissed her right.
Be friends, just don't go over your head, don't call her everyday. This is mostly her decision, but you can help by supporting her, help her make some kind of chart.
Her boy friend w/ one side good, and the other side bad.
Then you, good, bad, THe one with more good is mostly for her.
Have it be you.
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2007-03-23 18:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by ladiesman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just told you what to do. So do it. Forget about her. If you are the man of her dreams, she will find you when she is finished with whathisname. In the meantime you are putting presure on her and this will only drive her away.
2007-03-23 18:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on my man. Move on. Enjoy the memory and move on. She aint interested I'm afraid. Perhaps in future she may be single and youll have another chance - but it sure wont be like that if you hassle her now.
2007-03-23 18:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Danny B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to listen to "The Professor". You can learn a lot from this guy. I just started listening and he has a lot of knowledge for us guys.
http://www.blowmeuptom.com/leykis-or-not/comments.php?DiscussionID=17&page=1#Item_0
2007-03-23 18:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by show83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you to find a better girl, maybe you should start looking.
2007-03-23 18:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋