i don't know what to do.everything i do has questions.what should i do to help him trust me more?
2007-03-23 11:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by soty_rox735 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust should have come along with the relationship. If there isn't any there won't be a relationship for very long.
2007-03-23 11:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart that's not called protective.. it's called jealous.
It's dangerous and a really large red flag of worse things to come. Most abusers start out as overly protective, jealous partners who verbally abuse and mentally bully you into doing ...well nothing pretty much. The problem is not him trusting you, it's him wanting to control you. There is nothing you can do about it and I really suggest that unless he is willing to get therapy for his jealous need to control you, you get away from him before it becomes violent.
2007-03-23 18:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only gets worse from here.
There is nothing you can do to get him to trust you. There are no words you can say, there is no thing you could that would make him say "whew, now I can trust her - ket's get on with our lives".
This is who he is, and no matter what other fabulous qualities he has - THIS IS WHO HE IS!
It only gets worse from here.
The only soluton is for you to show him the door so he can "go out and find a good woman that he can trust - cause it ain't you!".
Best wishes.
2007-03-23 18:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he controlling?.Abusive?..Has anger issues?..there could be alot to do with that Protective issue.Look more into it.Ask him Why he has trust issue.Seems more like he does not trust you.
2007-03-23 18:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be dumb get rid of him!!!!Trust is the basis for a relationship other than that u r his sleepmate only.
2007-03-23 18:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, tell him how you feel and if he really loves you he will understand. Tell him to loosen up and that the only love in your life now is him.
Good Luck
2007-03-23 18:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that's "protective"...i think he's a control freak!...he likes to have control over everything that's why people like that always want to know everything you do and why...just talk to him about it..let him know that his attitude is very uncomfortable and he needs to learn how to respect you space and if he truly loves he will understand.
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2007-03-23 18:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by eddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say protective, it sounds like he is possessive. There is nothing you can do. Make sure which it is and be careful.
2007-03-23 18:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think PROTECTIVE is the word. More like CONTROLLING and INSECURE!
This is a RED flag if you don't control it now!
Best wishes!
2007-03-23 18:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to change sweetie, just dump him...
I know its not as easy as it sounds but you should do it, its like when a person cheats, there not going to change!
2007-03-23 18:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋